A boyfriend that is actively on a dating site is looking to see what dating options are available to him.
Finding him on a dating site is a strong indication that he has been complicit with the idea of doing all of this behind your back.
Although he is intent on seeing what dating options are available to him, he is fully aware that there are no guarantees of success.
This is why he maintains his relationship with you.
In joining a dating site, he isn’t taking you all that seriously.
Although it has been a slow courtship, with no pressure applied on either person, he is clearly keeping his dating options open.
Now that you have found out that the guy you are dating just joined a dating site, there is no sugarcoating how dire your predicament is.
In continuing to date him, you run a risk that he isn’t anywhere near as focused on you as he should be.
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Letting go of all the attention you are used to getting on dating sites isn’t easy.
The dopamine rush that the attention gives you is addicting.
Never in our lifetime have we had so much access to attention, thanks to dating sites.
Now that you are in a committed relationship, there is no requirement to stay on dating sites, and yet you have been unable to let them go.
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He is still keeping his dating options open by remaining on a dating site.
Regardless of how much he has made you believe that you are the only one he wants to be with, this isn’t true.
By maintaining a subscription on a dating site, he is holding out for a better match.
It is as plain as day.
There are much better places to find friends besides online dating apps.
A partner that wants to use dating apps to find friends is seeking the attention of women on said dating apps.
He doesn’t mention that he is already in a relationship so as to avoid turning off his potential matches.
No matter what your partner tells you about an intent to find new friends and nothing more, letting him use dating apps is akin to playing with fire.