Getting to know someone on an online dating site is a process that takes time.
If he is coming on too strong to get you to meet him in person and the both of you have barely interacted or you aren’t at a place in your interaction where you feel comfortable doing it, you should turn him down.
In turning him down, you should let him know that you would rather spend some more time in getting to know each other.
This means that most men will take some time to get to know a woman and ascertain whether she would be someone that he would like to ask out on a date.