Yes, it is.

Asking about and establishing his intentions early on is what helps you determine whether the both of you are on the same page and want the same thing out of online dating.

Oftentimes, people who are online dating make the mistake of not asking about someone’s intentions early on in their interaction with that person, even after they have met that person on a first date.

They proceed to assume that the other person wants the same out of online dating.

Unfortunately, by the time they find out that the other person has totally different intentions when it comes to what the person wants out of online dating, it is too late.

Emotions have developed and it is a lot harder now to break away.

This is one of the reasons why it is actually essential that you ask him about his intentions on online dating on your first date with him.

You don’t have to feel awkward about asking him what his intentions are. You are doing this to protect yourself and to make sure that you don’t take your interaction with this guy any further without knowing where he stands.

You can bring up the topic in a conversational manner on your first date and let him answer you without interrupting him.

Give him the platform without interfering and let him speak from the heart or just speak his mind.

It is also important that you don’t tell him what your intentions for online dating are before asking him what his intentions are.

If you were to do that and he isn’t an honest person, he may simply mirror or match what you said just so that he can continue doing what he is doing with you and get something out of it for himself.

Hence, it is best to ask him about his intentions first and let him answer wholeheartedly.

Then, if he were to proceed to ask you about your intentions, you can go ahead and answer honestly as well.

Asking him about his intentions on online dating on your first date is something that shouldn’t be taken lightly.

You may be having such a good time on your first date with him that you keep delaying asking him this question.

In fact, you could get to the point where the first date is about to be over and you haven’t yet asked him about his intentions on online dating.

At that point, you may have had such a good time on the first date that you decide that it is best not to ruin it by asking such a heavy question.

Hence, you convince yourself that you will ask him about his intentions on online dating on the next date.

You proceed to go home with a smile on your face and you think about him and how much fun you had with him throughout the week.

This is where you begin to get emotionally attached because he is constantly in your thoughts.

You may get so caught up in the second date that you forget to ask him yet again about his intentions on online dating.

Then you proceed to become even more emotionally attached to him as another week goes by and he is continuously dominating your thoughts.

By the time you finally ask him about his intentions on online dating on your third date with him, you may be so emotionally invested that you simply tell yourself that you will find a way to make it work regardless of what he tells you.

By now, you are hooked.

Even if this guy were to tell you his intentions on online dating and they were completely opposite to your own, you may still tell yourself that it is okay and that somehow everything will work out in the end.

This is why you mustn’t allow yourself to go this long without asking him about what his intentions are for online dating.

Asking him his intentions on online dating on the first date and allowing him to answer you without interrupting him will give you a better picture of whether you both want the same thing.

This way, you can either proceed with him or choose to stop things now before emotions start clouding your judgment.