It can be easy to feel rejected on a dating app.
You may send a message to someone that you are really excited and they don’t respond to it.
This isn’t unusual.
There are lots of people who send messages to someone that they are interested in on a dating app who don’t get replies from those people.
Try not to take it personally.
You don’t really know what that person that you sent a message to was looking for.
Even though you may have found a lot in common with them as far as what you saw on their dating profile, this doesn’t mean that the person will feel the same connection with you.
If they took the time to read your dating profile after you sent the initial message, they may have simply not felt a spark with you.
Even though they noticed that the both of you have things in common, there may have been something missing.
Perhaps it was in the tone of your dating profile.
Perhaps it was in the lack of detail in a particular area of importance that they were most interested in learning more about.
Again, it is really not your fault that they felt this way.
You are simply not going to connect with everyone that you send a message to or who reads your dating profile.
This is something that you are going to have to accept when it comes to online dating.
Allowing yourself to feel rejected on a dating app can strongly affect how you go about online dating.
If you take this too personally, you may start hesitating when it comes to messaging people.
You may get worried that you will only experience the same rejection again and you may start keeping yourself from sending messages out of fear.
This would be a mistake.
Given the sheer volume of people who are using dating apps, rejection is bound to occur.
However, again, it isn’t personal.
You shouldn’t allow that to keep you from messaging people that you are interested in on a dating app.
Accept that some of them may not be interested in you and that this is okay.
In the same way, not everyone that sends you a message will be someone that you are interested in.
However, you shouldn’t let the fear of being rejected on a dating app keep you from continuously sending messages to people that you are interested in.
If you start hesitating to send people messages and instead, leave it to people to initiate messages to you, you may ultimately quit online dating altogether out of frustration.
If you keep receiving messages from people that you aren’t interested in, you will eventually get tired of it and give up on online dating.
You should put your dating future into your own hands instead of hoping that someone that you are interested in will send you a message.
Keep sending messages to people that you are interested in and be patient.
Eventually, you will meet the right person for you.