When he matched with you on a dating site, there was a fierce amount of interest.

That was the reason for the loads of emails you consequently received from him.

He was excited over your photos and bio.

The conversations with you over email was his way of getting to know you, as well as figure out whether there was romantic chemistry.

While you were receiving loads of emails from him, his interest was at a peak.

He wanted to know more about you.

As he got to know more about you, and got a feel for how the exchange was developing, he realized that he wasn’t as interested anymore.

He learned something about you as he was chatting with you on the matchmaking service that gave him pause.

It went against what he initially thought about you.

This doesn’t mean that you did anything bad.

Whatever he learned was either in relation to your personality, background, or lifestyle.

Initially, he was unaware of this, but as he exchanged loads of emails with you, he discovered it.

This turned him off.

What was this?

A difference of opinion about a topic that is important to him.

A piece of your history that was uncomfortable for him to accept.

A future outlook that was disparate from his own.

A personality trait that troubled him.

And so on.

There are any number of reasons why a guy suddenly stops messaging you.

At the core of it all is that there was information gleaned about you while exchanging emails with you on the online dating website that didn’t agree with him.

Again, it’s not anything you necessarily did wrong.

As long as you were prompt in responding to his emails, and you were polite, this has more to do with compatibility.

After sending you loads of emails, he got a substantial read on how compatible he was with you.

In his judgment, the compatibility he thought was possible in the beginning was a smokescreen.

As he learned more about you and was further exposed to your personality, background, and lifestyle, he realized that he wasn’t as compatible with you as he initially thought he was.

As a result, he suddenly stopped messaging you.

This is assuming that this was a guy who had good intentions from the start, and was authentic in his initial interest in you.

There are guys on dating sites who send loads of emails to girls but aren’t authentic in their objectives.

All they want is someone to chat with.

Some of these guys are already in relationships in real life, and others are single but emotionally unavailable.

All they want is to have conversations with women they match with on online dating sites to kill their boredom, loneliness, and boost their egos.

A guy with this objective was never intent on taking you seriously.

He wanted the attention and nothing more.

Guys like this are like firecrackers at first.

They explode out of the gate with messages, and like a firecracker, the flame eventually dissipates.

He has absorbed his fill of the conversation and is now bored.

At this stage, he stops messaging the girl and looks for a new girl on the dating site to repeat the same behavior with.