If He’s Talking To Other Girls On The Dating App Too, Does That Mean He’s Not Actually Interested In Me?

If He's Talking To Other Girls On The Dating App Too, Does That Mean He's Not Actually Interested In Me?

Knowing why he signed up on a dating app is critical in this situation.

What sort of relationship is he looking for?

Does his dating profile state that he isn’t seeking anything serious?

If that is the case, he is on the dating app to chat with multiple girls to kill time and get attention.

Even though you have connected with him and good conversations have been had, you are only one of several girls he wants to kill time with and get attention from.

To reiterate, it’s critical you know what sort of relationship he is looking for.

To assume that he secretly wants the same type of relationship you are seeking is dangerous.

If you are looking for a serious relationship, and he isn’t, don’t ignore this.

Girls err in thinking that they can change a guy’s mind when he has stated in his dating profile that he isn’t in the market for a serious relationship.

She gets too caught up on his photos and bio.

His good looks, exciting lifestyle, and charm, are too enticing to bypass.

Next thing she knows, she is convincing herself that she is open to talking to someone who isn’t looking for a serious relationship.

Basically, she goes against what she is looking for on a dating app so that she doesn’t turn him off, and has a crack at chatting with him.

She swipes right on his dating profile and conversation ensues.

Inevitably, as time goes on, she becomes enamored with his charm and develops feelings for him.

Feelings that aren’t returned.

A guy that isn’t on a dating app to find a serious relationship talks to other girls without any qualms.

He isn’t emotionally available to anyone.

A girl that believes that she has what it takes to get him to open up to her emotionally is playing with fire.

In a scenario where you are on a dating app to find a serious relationship, and this is a guy who states that he isn’t, it isn’t worth your time to keep talking to him.

Alright, let’s assume that his dating profile states that he is seeking a serious relationship.

You chose to talk to him on a dating app knowing that he has a similar desire to find a serious partner.

So far, the conversations have been good and you were of the mind that he is interested in you.

Once you realized that he is talking to other girls, you became doubtful about his interest in you.

Be aware that a guy, or girl for that matter, doesn’t sign up on a dating app to solely talk to one match.

I am sure that you have talked to other guys on the dating app too.

It’s no different with him.

Although you have had good conversations with him, it doesn’t mean that you are his most compatible match.

Given that dating apps provide a platform for people to connect with a wide range of potential matches, it makes sense that people chat with multiple matches at once.

The idea is to find the most compatible match.

His conversations with you have been good, but this doesn’t mean that he isn’t having conversations with other girls that are just as good.

All of this being said, the question of whether he isn’t actually interested in you comes down to a couple factors.

How long you have been chatting with him and whether he has asked you out on a date.

If he has been chatting with you on the dating app for more than a month and is yet to ask you out on a date, he is actually not all that interested in you.

A guy doesn’t require a month on a dating app to know whether a girl he has been chatting with is someone he wants to meet on a date.

How long have you been talking to him on the dating app?

Has he asked you out on a date?

In the event it has been a month or more, and he is yet to ask you out on a date, you are wasting your time with him.

In this scenario, talking to other girls is an indication that he isn’t actually not all that interested in you.

He only keeps talking to you because he knows you like him and wants to keep you on his back burner.