Even though this is a person on two different dating sites, it doesn’t mean they use them with the same frequency.

In most cases, a person has a favorite dating site that they use more frequently than others.

In your case, this is a woman who is yet to respond to the message you sent her some time ago.

Since then, you have come across her profile on a different dating site, and you are curious about messaging her on this new dating site.

It isn’t at all creepy to message the same person on two different dating sites.

The fact that she is yet to reply to the message you sent her on the previous dating site, is possibly an indication that she uses the other dating site more frequently.

It’s a good idea to cover your bases.

There are no guarantees that she sees the one message you left her on the first dating site.

There is a new opportunity to message this woman on a different matchmaking site.

Take it.

This being said, don’t copy and paste the exact message you sent her on the previous dating site.

If she has a totally different bio on this other dating site, construct a message that relates to the information she included in her bio.

In other words, your message is fresh and relevant.

It isn’t at all creepy to send her distinct messages on two different dating sites.

Throngs of people are on multiple dating sites at a time, and it isn’t at all unusual for them to come across each other’s profiles on different dating sites.

This dramatically lowers any perceived creepiness whenever a person finds the same person on a different dating site.

When you construct a new message to her, do not reference the fact that you messaged her on a different dating site.

It is better to treat this message as though it is the first time you are messaging her.

By not referencing the previous message you sent her on the other online dating site, you keep her focused on what you are saying in your new message.

Being that you don’t know whether she has had a good experience with the other dating site or not, it is best you don’t say anything to remind her of it.

This way, her mind is completely clear as she reads your message and isn’t obfuscated by any negative thoughts she could be harboring about the other dating site.

Additionally, do not make any comparisons between her profiles in your message to her.

Comparing her profiles puts the wrong ideas in her head.

There is a perception that you are paying an unhealthy amount of attention to her profiles, and this gives off stalker-like vibes.

Thinking of you as a stalker is creepy to her.

Suffice it to say, steering clear of anything in your message that compares the two profiles is critical.

Giving her the impression that this is the very first time you have come across her profile is how you foster a fresh vitality to your message.

Any reference to her other profile is redundant and unnecessary.