As far as you are concerned, ugly guys on matchmaking sites are a hassle.
You receive a ton of messages from them each and every day.
There is nothing more annoying than looking through an endless amount of messages and discovering that the bulk of them were sent by ugly guys.
Being a good-looking woman, you chose to sign up on dating sites to match with good-looking men.
Ever since signing up, you have received so many messages and interest signals from ugly guys, rifling through them has been akin to working a second job.
It’s no wonder that the irritation has now led to confusion.
You don’t get why these ugly guys keep at it.
You never reply to their messages on internet dating websites.
Not so much as an acknowledgment in greeting.
Once you see a message from an ugly guy in your message inbox, you don’t bother reading the whole message.
It’s deleted almost instantly.
You are going so far as blocking these ugly guys too.
That way, you circumvent having to deal with the same ugly guys messaging you perennially, desperate for a response from you.
Although you are deleting and blocking these ugly men as quickly as you see their messages and interest signals, it’s funny that these low caliber men keep messaging you.
In what world do they think that they have a shot with you?
Yet, every time you log into your account, you are inundated with messages and interest signals from these guys.
Online dating sites are platforms where these unattractive men have far more courage to approach an attractive woman like yourself, than they do in real life.
These ugly guys don’t have the courage nor confidence to approach an attractive woman in the real world.
He is filled with fear and anxiety, knowing that he isn’t attractive and that any move he makes on an attractive woman in the real world is sure to lead to a rejection.
As a result, he plays it safe.
Rather than approaching an attractive woman he sees on a bus, train, street, etc., he does so on a dating site.
Online dating sites are impersonal.
It is much easier for an unattractive guy to approach an attractive woman on a dating site than it is in real life.
He doesn’t fear a rejection from her anywhere near as much as he does from a woman in the real world.
In several cases, a lack of a response to his message to her is interpreted as a sign that she is busy or hasn’t seen the message.
He makes up any palatable reason to make himself feel better about her silence.
This is what leads to him sending a new message on the matchmaking website a little later.
She doesn’t reply to it, and he finally realizes that she is purposely not replying to his messages, but this rejection online has little sting in comparison to being rejected by an attractive woman in real life.
This is the same perception for so many unattractive guys on dating sites.
The sting of rejection from an attractive woman on a dating site doesn’t have the same potency as that of an attractive woman in the real world.
When you include the sheer volume of dating profiles of women that exist on dating sites, many unattractive men send messages out in mass, a copy and paste of the same message, in an effort to play the numbers game.
The expectation is that out of so many messages sent, they receive a few replies.
Obviously, one of those few replies won’t be from you.