When it is infrequent sexual innuendo that only occurs every so often in conversation, it isn’t a red flag.

He is a guy that you matched with on a dating site.

To this end, he has a physical attraction towards you.

He likes what you look like, and as a guy, he expresses his physical attraction towards you with occasional sexual innuendo in conversation.

As long as these sexual innuendos aren’t crude and disrespectful, it isn’t an early red flag that he brings in sexual innuendo from time to time in conversation.

When the conversations you have with him are primarily filled with substance over sexual innuendo, you have nothing to worry about.

Guys are sexual beings.

Yes, this guy has thought about kissing you and making love to you.

This is nothing unusual.

This is how guys are.

Without thinking about this possibility, he wouldn’t want to match with you on a dating site in the first place.

Guys are visual in how they determine whether they are physically attracted to a woman or not.

It is first and foremost about what he sees.

He wants what he sees to be aesthetically pleasing to him.

This is male nature and that doesn’t change based on the fact that you met him on an online dating site.

Keep this in mind as you talk to this man and get to know him.

He wants to have moments of levity in conversation.

For men, this isn’t solely about talking about fun activities that they have in common with you.

It’s about flirting and sexual innuendo too.

There is nothing wrong with this, as long as the bulk of the conversations you have with him are about substance.

The occasional sexual innuendo in the early conversations you have with him are nothing to cast aspersions at.

The truth is, when you are too rigid in the early conversations you have with him, preferring to stick with mundane topics and refusing to parlay with him whenever he introduces sexual innuendo, you risk boring him.

This is where he gets the impression that you are too rigid and no fun.

Although he signed up on an online dating site to find a woman of substance, that doesn’t mean that he wants her to be too stuck on being too straight-laced.

He wants to have fun in his conversations with her too.

He wants to flirt or introduce sexual innuendo from time to time, and have her be responsive to this.

Strongly think about how you have been going about chatting with men you match with on dating sites.

Have you been too stiff?

Have you been too stuck on talking about mundane and apropos topics without having the room to have playful conversation every so often?

This is a recipe for disaster when you are meeting men on dating sites.

Even though you want a relationship of substance, it doesn’t mean that you can’t have some fun in the process.

Loosen up a bit.

Open yourself up to having flirty conversations with men you match with on dating sites, at the appropriate moments.

Provided that the man primarily talks about substance with the occasional sexual innuendo, there are no red flags.