Online Dating: When A Match Asks You The Same Question Again?

Online Dating: When A Match Asks You The Same Question Again?

There is a weird feeling that came with knowing that this match had just asked you the same question again.

It made you instantly reflect on whether she had paid attention to the conversations you had with her in the past on the dating app.

Inevitably, this has caused you to deliberate on whether it is worth your time to keep chatting with this match.

There is a fear that a match who gets into a pattern of asking you the same question that was previously asked, is a waste of your time and energy.

You are at a crossroads on what to do.

What does it mean when a match asks you the same question again?

It means that she either forgot that she asked you that question in a previous conversation, or is almost certain she asked it and got an answer from you, but isn’t positive that the answer she thinks you gave her is accurate.

In a scenario where she forgot that she asked you that question in a previous conversation, this isn’t at all unusual.

Women receive so many more matches on dating apps than men do.

This causes distractions, as multiple men aggressively seek out her attention.

She is conducting multiple conversations with multiple guys.

This makes you one of several conversations she is keeping track of.

Keeping this in mind, it isn’t unusual that she forgets that she asked you a question in the past, and asks it again.

Don’t worry.

As long as her conversations with you are intriguing, she is naturally going to start putting more of a focus on her conversations with you.

This means that she is destined to get more emotionally invested in her conversations with you, which dramatically reduces the chances that she develops a pattern of forgetting questions she has asked you in prior conversations.

This is where you have separated yourself from everyone else, and getting rewarded for it.

In a scenario where she is almost certain she asked you the question and got an answer, but asks it again, she wants to be sure that the answer she suspects she already has to the question is accurate.

She has an idea for what it is, but isn’t wholly positive about it.

In asking the same question again, she wants to avoid any embarrassment or awkwardness.

The embarrassment and awkwardness that occurs when she assumes she has the right answer and doesn’t.

In asking the question again, she is playing it safe.

It is still very early in her conversations with you, and she worries about coming off as though she isn’t giving you the respect you deserve if you were to get the impression that she isn’t taking what you have told her in the past to heart.

Being self-conscious about this, she isn’t intent on developing a pattern of asking you questions that she has asked before.

She already feels bad enough asking you the same question again, and is hoping you don’t pick up on it.

Regardless of which scenario it is, swallow your pride and answer the question again.

For now, give her the benefit of the doubt.