Sadly, there are lots of incidents where you match with a person on a dating platform, meet them on a date in real life, and realize that the person posted misleading photos on their dating profile.
This is an occurrence in online dating that has existed from its inception and is bound to exist for as long as online dating exists.
Unfortunately, there are people who are dishonest about their physical appearance.
She posts misleading photos of herself on her profile to make herself appear more attractive to men who are presented with her profile.
As long as her purpose for joining a dating site is to find a serious relationship with someone, she stops visiting said dating site as his courtship of her progresses.
In him, she suspects she has found the right match.
They are having long and enjoyable conversations with each other on platforms outside of the dating site.
Whether it be by phone or social media, she is having hours-long conversations with him.
When men aren’t writing to you on a dating platform, they don’t believe that your dating profile is real.
These are jaded men who have encountered so many dating profiles that look like yours, several of which turned out to be fake, they quickly relegate your profile as fake.
As long as you are an attractive woman, there is almost no reason why men wouldn’t write to you on a dating site, unless they think that your profile is fake.
Guys are constantly inundated with fake profiles on a dating site.
Although you are hurting right now, it doesn’t do you any good to go on matchmaking sites while you are going through this emotional suffering.
In your mind, going on a dating site to match with men is how you connect with someone new and move past the emotional suffering you are experiencing from this breakup.
It all sounds like a solution, but sadly, it isn’t in the long run.
Signing up on a dating site while you are hurting from a recent breakup doesn’t give you the ultimate healing you require.