In joining a dating site, he isn’t taking you all that seriously.

Although it has been a slow courtship, with no pressure applied on either person, he is clearly keeping his dating options open.

Now that you have found out that the guy you are dating just joined a dating site, there is no sugarcoating how dire your predicament is.

In continuing to date him, you run a risk that he isn’t anywhere near as focused on you as he should be.

This means that there are bound to be future cancellations on dates.

When he does make a date, there are destined to be moments where he cuts the date short so as to make room for another date he has set up with a match from the dating site.

On occasions that he is hanging out with you at your place or his, he surreptitiously disappears from time to time, checking his phone for messages or matches from the online dating site, as he is supposedly using the bathroom.

This guy that you have been dating, and taking it slow with, is about to become really busy.

He won’t have as much time as he once had to go on dates with you or hang out.

It’s not like you were doing a lot of dating and hanging out with him in the first place.

All of that is exacerbated now that he has just joined a dating site.

Regrettably, until you learned of this, you thought you were connecting with each other, albeit slowly.

Now that the truth is out, it doesn’t matter what you were thinking.

His actions speak much louder than what you were thinking.

In joining a dating site, he is clearly showing that his time dating you thus far hasn’t been as fulfilling as he has been making it out to be.

In going behind your back to sign up on a dating site, he demonstrated a callousness that is a poison to any budding romantic relationship.

Despite the feelings you have developed for him since he started wooing you, the reality that he joined a matchmaking internet service behind your back should stop you in your tracks.

Yet, being human, you are predisposed to convincing yourself that there is a justifiable explanation for this.

In the event you confront him about it, you risk exposing yourself to more of his deceit, as he cajoles you into thinking that he does care about you.

He goes as far as telling you that he is taking the profile off the dating site completely.

Sadly, this is merely subterfuge.

His intention is to either sign up on a new dating site, or hide his profile on the dating site he is currently on, so as to evade the watchful eyes of those who know you, or the watchful eyes of yours truly.

In which case, his profile is never discovered.

Don’t let your feelings best your reason.

In joining a dating site behind your back, his actions have irrefutably shown that he isn’t trustworthy, nor does he have the same feelings for you as you are developing for him.

Toss him aside and move on.