Women receive far more messages on dating websites than men do.

When she signs up, she is inundated with a ton of messages.

Such an abundance that it is overwhelming.

With such a preponderance of messages, she naturally becomes more picky.

This means that she focuses on responding to the men she is the most attracted to.

A minority of men meet this level of attractiveness.

These rare men receive the lion’s share of messages and responses from women on dating sites.

Plenty of guys blunder in thinking they are capable of scoring a hot woman on dating platforms when they have never had that experience in real life.

As a man who never attracts gorgeous women in real life, it is severely unrealistic to think you are capable of attracting them on dating sites.

Dating sites aren’t a magical cure-all for your lifelong dating woes.

A man that struggles to attract good-looking women in real life is struggling to attract good-looking women on online dating sites too.

This is reality.

Dating sites amplify how superficial we are as human beings.

People on dating sites make quick assessments of you based on what you look like in your profile.

Based on that, she either responds to your message or she doesn’t.

When you keep finding that women never respond to your messages, it is a reflection of how attractive they deem you to be.

Her silence is her answer.

Don’t take it personally.

Dating sites by their nature are impersonal.

Strangers are motivated to act based on what they see.

Given that they don’t know you personally, they go off of physical attractiveness.

This means that less attractive men won’t have much of a chance matching with more attractive women.

This said, physical looks aren’t the only reason why women never respond to you on dating sites.

Men in mass put out very little effort in the photos they post on dating sites.

Think about it.

How often do you take quality photos of yourself?

Rarely.

Women, on the other hand, love taking photos.

Given that they dominate the social media space, which is extremely reliant on photos, this makes sense.

Keeping this in mind, it’s paramount that you change the photos on your profile.

Make them better.

Women on internet dating sites judge you primarily on the quality of your photos.

Even though you aren’t the most attractive man, it’s possible to get a minority of these women to like you based on what your photos look like.

Photos showing you involved in exciting activities are winners with women on dating sites.

These photos motivate a woman to envision herself participating in the same exciting activity alongside you.

Winning photos are those where you are seen traveling, captured at cultural and picturesque locations in foreign countries.

Women love to travel.

Furthermore, photos of you on the beach, at concerts, and with animals are tried and tested to attract women, inspiring them to respond to your messages.

There is nothing wrong with shooting your shot by sending messages to attractive women on dating sites.

Notwithstanding, couple that with messaging women who are on your level of attractiveness or slightly higher.

This mixes things up, preventing you from being too myopic in who you are looking to match with and further increasing the responses from women.