When men aren’t writing to you on a dating platform, they don’t believe that your dating profile is real.
These are jaded men who have encountered so many dating profiles that look like yours, several of which turned out to be fake, they quickly relegate your profile as fake.
As long as you are an attractive woman, there is almost no reason why men wouldn’t write to you on a dating site, unless they think that your profile is fake.
Guys are constantly inundated with fake profiles on a dating site.
At first, he is excited to receive a like or match from a profile of such an attractive woman.
Nevertheless, as the weeks and months go by and he learns that these profiles are fake, it becomes depressing and exasperating.
He is so infuriated with these fake profiles, he sends several messages to the dating site, complaining about them.
Unfortunately, the dating site doesn’t attend to these complaints.
Messages from fake profiles continue to invade his message inbox.
This creates such dissension within him, he is tempted to quit the online dating site completely.
Yet, he sticks around, deciding instead to completely ignore these fake profiles.
This means that he has stopped giving a profile he suspects of being fake a closer look.
He doesn’t investigate.
The moment he receives a like or message from a profile he suspects as fake, he doesn’t bother clicking into it to read a bio or look at the photo gallery.
He immediately assumes it’s a fake profile.
Take a closer look at your profile.
Does it bear the traits of a fake profile?
For instance, fake profiles utilize photos of women that are really attractive.
If you are a really attractive woman, be sure not to overdo it with the makeup and hairdo.
Rather, ensure your profile photo has more of a natural look to it.
As long as you have natural beauty, a profile with minimal makeup doesn’t take away from your natural beauty.
The key to a natural look on an internet matchmaking site is to not overdo the makeup, hairdo, and outfit.
An outfit that is titillating, showing off a significant amount of cleavage, gives off red flags to these men that your profile is fake.
Fake profiles utilize the photos of really attractive women, who are done up, and in sexy attire, so as to attract as many men as possible on a dating site.
By drastically reducing the amount of sex appeal your profile is giving off, you make it less likely a guy deems your profile to be fake.
Use the same conservative approach with the rest of your photos.
Remember, a natural look is key.
Avoid an abundance of bikini shots or scantily clad shots of yourself.
Abstain from shots that seem as though an exotic location is superimposed in the background to make it seem as though you are at said exotic location.
This gives a guy the impression that the photos were taken in a photo studio with a green screen being used behind you.
These types of photos are prevalent in fake profiles.
Moreover, take a look at your bio on the internet dating site.
If it is filled with external links, even if they are social media links, ditch them.
Fake profiles are filled with external links, in an attempt to lead guys into websites that ask for their personal information such as their credit card information.
By reworking your profile to give it a more authentic appearance, you improve the chances of getting men to write to you on a dating site.