Lying about your ethnic background on an online dating website isn’t rewarding in the end.

Imagine matching with the girl of your dreams who thinks you are of a different ethnic background.

The one that you marked yourself as on your dating profile and lied about.

Upon matching with you, she is of the impression that you are who you say you are.

After a few days or weeks of phenomenal conversation and a fantastic connection, an in-person meeting is arranged.

She comes to this in-person meeting and is immediately disappointed.

She realizes that you aren’t of the ethnic background that you indicated you were on the dating site that she matched with you on.

Once this realization occurs, it doesn’t matter that she built a strong romantic connection with you over the last few days or weeks.

She is too flabbergasted by the lie that you led her to believe.

Instinctively, she won’t want to go through with the date.

All she wants to do is leave your physical presence, take out her smartphone en route to her car, log into the dating app she matched with you on, and proceed to unmatch and block your profile.

It doesn’t pay to lie about your ethnic background for online dating.

The truth comes out in the end upon meeting in person.

There isn’t any way around this.

And no, all of the chemistry you establish with a match that thinks you are of an ethnic background that you are misrepresenting won’t overlook the lie upon finding out.

The chemistry she experienced with you for all the days or weeks she was getting to know you was based on believing that you are of the ethnic background that you indicated on your dating profile.

Once she learns that you were lying about your ethnic background upon meeting you in person, none of the prior chemistry she was experiencing with you matters.

It was developed based on a false premise, and not only is the chemistry completely expunged, it is converted to bitterness and a sense of betrayal.

Lying on dating sites works against you in the end.

As long as the intent is to eventually meet a potential match in person, whatever you lied about on your dating profile will be exposed.

If you haven’t had any good results whenever you enter your true ethnic background, you aren’t alone.

People have preferences for the ethnicity they want to match with on internet dating platforms.

It doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with you.

None of these people with ethnic preferences that exclude yours know you personally.

They have an ethnic preference and it isn’t personal.

Be confident in who you are and in your ethnicity.

Every human being has value.

There is nothing you can do about your ethnicity.

That won’t change, ever.

Embrace it.

Rather, work on what you can change about yourself.

If you are overweight, start a gym regimen and eat a better diet so that you lose weight and make yourself more physically attractive to women on dating apps.

Where you are lacking in finances, work on increasing it, whether that be through working to get a promotion at your job, changing careers, starting a business, or learning a professional skill that is in demand.

That improves your finances over time, making you more attractive to women on dating sites.

Where you are lacking in social credibility, such as friendships, join interest groups centered on hobbies and interests you love.

This exposes you to more people who become new friends with time.

These are all ways you can improve yourself, making yourself more attractive to women on dating sites and consequently increasing the number of matches you receive, despite your ethnic background.