Unfortunately for him, your ex-boyfriend hasn’t found anyone to replace you as his new girlfriend since the breakup.

He joined a dating site to find someone new and hasn’t succeeded in doing that.

He is realizing just how difficult it is to replace a girlfriend.

His time on the dating site has been frustrating to say the least.

He hasn’t matched with all that many girls.

The few girls he has matched with either end no longer returning his text messages or ghost him when he asks them to meet for an in-person date.

He has swiped right on a significant number of dating profiles and he has barely had any matches.

He didn’t know that finding a new girlfriend on a dating site was this hard.

He thought that dating sites where easy destinations to find girls who were desperate enough to match with a stranger and eventually become said stranger’s new girlfriend.

Not so.

The reality of life on a dating site has hit him.

He isn’t pleased with how difficult it has been to find a new replacement for you.

To this end, it was a relief when he saw your dating profile on the dating site.

At first, he wondered about what to do.

He thought about the last time he saw you and how badly it went.

But that was soon replaced with thoughts about how well you two got along when the relationship was thriving.

He thought about the fun times he had with you on outings to the movies, restaurants, nightclubs, bars, house parties, etc.

Overwhelmed by these thoughts, he ignored the initial hesitation and chose to connect with you on the dating site.

He desperately doesn’t want you to dwell on the negative aspects of your past relationship with him.

In lieu of this, he wants you to think about all the positive aspects of the relationship, and see him in a good light.

He craves this so badly.

After all, he is desperate, and horny.

He hasn’t had much luck with even finding women to sleep with since the breakup, let alone partner up with.

He doesn’t like spending every night alone in bed without anyone by his side.

His nights are long and lonely, as he is tormented by the memories of you laying beside him, the scent and warmth of your body giving him comfort.

Your ex-boyfriend is talking to you on a dating site with the intention of reuniting with you.

That said, he doesn’t care about repairing the issue that led to the breakup in the first place.

He is primarily intent on getting back to being in a relationship with you and reaping the benefits that it brings.

Before allowing yourself to get sucked into talking to your ex on a dating site, consider what led to the breakup in the first place.

Should you so happen to take him back as a boyfriend, the same issues are bound to reoccur in the foreseeable future.

Exes who get back together rarely work out.

They are too consumed with lust and wistfulness, while ignoring the importance of resolving the issues that led to prior breakups.

You are better off letting him go and blocking him from having access to communicating with you on the dating site.

This lets you move on without the risk of getting sucked back into his influence.