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Luke is an experienced professional dating coach who has provided expert dating and online dating advice to thousands of clients for over a decade.

Online Dating at 35. Is It Worth It?

Online Dating At 35. Is It Worth It?

At 35 years of age, you are in the company of about 40 percent of the demographic on online dating sites.

At your age, without any online dating experience, there is a learning curve.

There is extremely critical knowledge you require before moving forward so that you are further ahead of the curve than most 35-year-old men who are clueless.

First and foremost, define what it is you are looking for on dating sites.

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Should I Continue To Require a College Degree When Meeting Men on Dating Sites?

Should I Continue To Require A College Degree When Meeting Men On Dating Sites?

Meeting men on matchmaking dating sites who have a college degree is clearly of phenomenal consequence to you.

You don’t see yourself happy with a long-term partner who doesn’t have a college degree.

There is nothing wrong with having an expectation that men you meet on dating sites have a college degree.

Obviously, you spent years in college, worked very hard on your college degree, and want a future partner with a similar life experience.

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Is a Guy Refusing To Share His Facebook a Red Flag When Online Dating?

Is A Guy Refusing To Share His Facebook A Red Flag When Online Dating?

You matched with him on an online dating site and have only been on a date or two with him.

For him, it’s too soon to share his Facebook with you.

To this end, his refusal to not share his Facebook isn’t a red flag.

Despite matching on a dating site with a mutual goal to meet a long-term partner, don’t be too hasty in your expectations of him.

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Is It True That Most Women Want 6′2″ or Taller Men on Dating Sites?

Is It True That Most Women Want 6'2" Or Taller Men On Dating Sites?

A preference for men at 6’2″ or taller on matchmaking sites is a little bit of an exaggeration.

Rather, most women on dating sites filter height at 6’0″ or taller in men they wish to match with.

Keep in mind that the average height of a man in the US is 5’9″, and that of an average woman is 5’4″.

It’s tempting for women on dating sites to enter unrealistic requirements for the men they wish to match with.

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What Dating Profiles Are a Turn-Off on Dating Sites?

What Dating Profiles Are A Turn-Off On Dating Sites?

Dating profile hiccups and missteps abound on mobile dating sites.

A prerequisite to success on dating sites is to be fully aware of what profiles turn women off.

Profile missteps on dating sites are so egregious, they consistently ruin any chances of getting matches, regardless of how well-meaning of a person you are.

Steer clear of creating dating profiles with little to no information.

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