Women are primarily looking for their perfect match on dating sites.

Knowing she is in search of her perfect match, for a long-term relationship, she is aware that this won’t happen overnight.

As a result, she develops a mindset of someone who is about to go through a journey.

On her journey, she isn’t in a hurry to get into a relationship with the first guy that intrigues her.

This means that while she is on this journey, she is open to a number of experiences along the way.

Given the sheer volume of matches that women receive on dating sites, she has the ability to take her time to go through the online dating experience without having to rush.

With this laidback approach to online dating, she goes through a gamut of experiences.

She is partaking in fun conversations with matches on online dating sites that are interesting to talk to, and help to kill time, but she knows they don’t meet the level of perfection she is seeking.

Unsurprisingly, those conversations run their course and fizzle out.

Next, she talks to guys that are great at listening.

With these guys, she unloads a good amount of her angst.

They become like her online therapists so to speak.

She talks to them about issues that range from family to profession, friendships, and her past boyfriends who all ended up being narcissists.

These men have their place in helping her offset a range of her emotions.

That said, this doesn’t lead to a romantic spark, and those conversations fizzle out too.

Next, men from her past match with her.

Some of these men go as far back as high school.

In her conversations with them, she reminisces on the fun old days when they were younger.

Nevertheless, these men are from an era of her life that no longer exists.

She isn’t the same person she was back then.

She has grown as a person.

Even though she may have had a crush on one or more of these men back then, she no longer does.

These conversations on online dating platforms fizzle out as the nostalgia wears out.

That said, she does exchange contact information with some of them, so that they don’t lose contact for yet another decade.

Next, there are the sycophants.

These are the guys that give her all the compliments and accolades in the world when they are talking to her.

She enjoys this praise.

They boost her self-esteem.

That said, these aren’t men she is capable of making a partner.

The praise is too much, leaving little mystery.

These conversations fizzle out too.

Finally, there is the guy she wholeheartedly connects with.

He is in the smallest minority of men on dating sites.

This is the guy that she wants a long-term relationship.

A long-term relationship is the main reason why she is on dating sites.

She went through an adventurous gamut before arriving at this match, but this was expected.

She wasn’t in a hurry.

She was taking advantage of all the matches she was receiving on internet dating sites.

Needless to say, she doesn’t get anywhere near this amount of attention from men in her everyday life.

Given all of this attention, her requirements in a mate elevated.

She is less open to flaws.

The volume of dating choices on dating sites gives her the impression that there is a perfect match waiting for her.

Therefore, her sense of reality is obfuscated by this notion that perfection in a mate exists.

She ends up dating a good number of these so-called perfect matches.

They have the good looks, social status, high income, and debonair personality she desires in a perfect match.

Nevertheless, she keeps running into the same problem.

These men, who are in the smallest minority on dating sites, are players.

They are incapable of staying faithful.

They cheat on her incessantly.

Finally, she realizes that perfection in a match isn’t realistic, and is open to matching with men who aren’t the epitome of her ideal match.

Women initially look for perfection in a match when they are on dating sites, but after several failed experiences with these men, they become realistic about this concept.

She still wants the closest thing to perfection in a match, but is open to forgiving various flaws.

So long as his flaws aren’t high-level deal breakers, she gives him a shot.