Clicking On Daily Matches Sent By A Dating Website Out Of “Curiosity” While In A Monogamous Relationship, Is This OK?

Clicking On Daily Matches Sent By A Dating Website Out Of "Curiosity" While In A Monogamous Relationship, Is This OK?

It is not okay.

Clicking on dating matches out of “curiosity” can easily lead to cheating.

If this person is in a monogamous, exclusive relationship with you, they should not have a dating profile on a dating website in the first place.

This would only lead to temptation to cheat, regardless of how much they tell you that they are only curious about the matches that they are sent.

They may try to make it seem as though it is no big deal to be sent matches by a dating website, but it is.

The more they click on these matches, the higher the likelihood that they will eventually come across a match that actually catches their attention.

Perhaps they think to send this match a harmless message simply saying hello.

They may even convince themselves that they have no intention of taking things further than an exchange of pleasantries, as they are already in a monogamous relationship with you.

However, how this often plays out is that a conversation could ensue that lasts longer than just a quick exchange of pleasantries.

Before you know it, this person that you are in a monogamous relationship with has been communicating with this person that was sent to them as a match for days and even weeks.

It may not be long before they both decide to meet each other in person because they have hit it off so well on the dating website.

This is where the person that you are in a monogamous relationship with will most likely cheat on you.

Hence, it is not okay that this person is clicking on daily matches sent by a dating website out of “curiosity,” no matter how harmless they try to make this seem.

Again, if this person is already in a monogamous, exclusive relationship with you, they shouldn’t have a dating profile on a dating website in the first place.

They should have deleted that dating profile the moment the both of you decided to get into a monogamous, exclusive relationship with each other.

If this person still has a dating profile up on a dating website, you should ask yourself about whether you are making the right decision in staying in a monogamous relationship with them.

It is not okay for a person in a monogamous relationship to still have an active dating profile.

When a person still has an active dating profile on a dating website and they are already in a monogamous relationship, they are indicating that they aren’t satisfied with that relationship.

They are indicating that they are open to ditching the relationship if they so happen to find someone better on a dating website.

This may actually be the hidden reason why this person that you are in a monogamous relationship with is always clicking on matches sent by a dating website out of “curiosity.”

There is a part of this person that may be longing for someone else that is better than you.

They may say that they are perfectly happy with you, but you really have to observe what they are actually doing.

If this person is still using a dating website, they are indicating that they are not entirely happy in their monogamous relationship with you.

Whatever reason that they keep giving you for still having an active dating profile is irrelevant.

In your case, this is a person who is trying to eat their cake and have it to.

They want to keep you in their lives as a romantic partner until they find someone else that they consider to be better.

At which point, they may leave you for that person or just start cheating on you.

This will leave you heartbroken and feeling used.

This is why you have to make sure that this person that you are in a monogamous relationship with deletes their dating profile on this dating website without delay.