The bulk of people in the world are average looking.

Since that is our reality, it means that the majority of people on online dating sites are average looking too.

This means that as an average-looking person, you fit right in.

Thanks to the popularity of online dating sites, millions of people use them.

Most of whom are average looking, putting you in good company.

When online dating sites don’t work for average-looking people, they have become unrealistic about who they are capable of matching with.

Instead of looking to match with other average-looking people, they look to match with the most attractive people.

This is where a reality check is required.

If you have never had a history of attracting beautiful women in your everyday life in the real world, that doesn’t change on online dating sites.

It is so easy to fall into a trap of thinking you are capable of attracting beautiful women on dating sites.

When the image of a gorgeous woman is presented to you on a dating site, it is so tempting to swipe right on it.

You forget that there is no history of you attracting beautiful women in your everyday life, and yet, here you are swiping right her profile on a dating platform.

You proceed to do this with the next profile of a gorgeous woman that is presented to you, and the next, and the next, ad infinitum.

Before you know it, weeks have gone by and you are yet to receive a single match.

You are despondent and depressed.

Soon, you are believing that your lack of success in not receiving matches must have something to do with your average looks.

Sadly, you conveniently ignore the fact that you have been primarily liking the profiles of women who are far better looking than you over the past few weeks.

These are women who are out of your league, the quality of which you have never demonstrated a history of attracting in your everyday life in the real world.

To think that you would be capable of attracting women of this caliber on dating sites isn’t realistic.

Attractive women on matchmaking dating sites are similar to the attractive women you see in the real world.

Just as in the real world, they primarily seek out attractive men.

Men who don’t look like you.

To this end, she doesn’t swipe right on your profile or respond to a message you send her.

Don’t take this personally.

Bear in mind that you haven’t shown a history of attracting this caliber of woman in the real world.

Dating sites are merely a reflection of what occurs in the real world on an amplified level.

So long as you don’t fall into the trap of going after women who are way better looking than you on dating sites, success imminent.

Take solace in knowing that as is in the real world, the bulk of people on dating sites are average looking.

This widens the pool of compatible matches for an average-looking guy exponentially, making it far more likely you find the right match for you.