People on internet dating sites are reflective of people in real life.

The next time you go out in public, take a look at the couples you see.

The greater number of couples you see walking hand in hand are of the same race.

A white person is coupled up with a white person, Hispanic with Hispanic, Asian with Asian, black with black, and Native American with Native American.

People naturally gravitate to those that look like them in who they choose to date or marry.

It’s human nature.

Before the advent of modern society, and online dating sites, this was also the norm.

All that has changed is that we are more of a blended society in regards to the proximity in which all races are to each other.

Indeed, a single neighborhood in modern day society can consist of people from every major race living side by side.

We live in an integrated society, which is why all races live in such proximity with each other.

That said, our biology doesn’t change.

When it comes to dating or reproducing, we gravitate to people that look like us.

We gravitate to said person’s similar physical features, along with their familial, societal, educational, religious, and socioeconomic similarities.

Dating sites are no different from what we see in couples in our everyday society.

Dating sites merely amplify what already occurs in the real world.

Keeping this in mind, a white girl on a dating site is likely in search of a white mate, just as an Asian girl is seeking out an Asian mate, a black girl seeking out a black mate, and a Native American girl seeking out a Native American mate.

All of this aside, when a girl on a matchmaking dating site demonstrates an interest in dating someone outside of her race, her preference is for a white or Hispanic man.

You might look at this as a sign of racism, but she sees this as her preference.

A white or Hispanic man is regarded as the epitome of masculine sex appeal by society at large.

Who graces the covers of female romance and erotica novels?

Whose handsome face graces the movie posters of romance movies?

You guessed it.

A white or Hispanic man.

Human beings are naturally superficial.

Not only do we harbor our own personal biases in what we find attractive in a potential mate, we are also influenced by what society tells us is the epitome of masculine sex appeal.

Women that are open to dating men of a different race on dating sites, are far more likely to choose white and Hispanic men over black and Asian men, believing white and Hispanic men to be more physically attractive than black and Asian men, among other qualities.

Statistically, black and Asian men are the least desired men on dating sites, and as a result, receive the least matches.

This is not the fault of online matchmaking sites.

This is merely a reflection of society at large, amplified through dating sites.

Instead of taking this personally, and regarding it as racist, acknowledge and accept that this is human nature.

People primarily date within their own race, and the women that are open to dating outside of their race, prefer dating white or Hispanic men.

This is a dating preference, and it won’t change.

Why care that the lion’s share of women prefer dating white or Hispanic men, when there are still a sizeable minority of women who are open to dating men who aren’t exclusively of the white or Hispanic persuasion?

There are niche dating sites that cater to people who are looking to date interracially.

Yes, these are women who are open to dating men that are generally on the lower rung of desirability on larger dating sites, such as black and Asian men.

If you are of one of these ethnicities and want to date interracially, consider joining smaller niche dating sites that cater to this audience.

Online dating sites provide such a wide and eclectic reach, a little extra effort into finding the right dating site for you, is sure to render positive results.