Given how populated online matchmaking sites are, it isn’t unusual to end up randomly meeting or seeing someone that rejected you after matching with you.
Keep in mind that rejection is part of the game when seeking a partner.
Think about all the women you have rejected on a dating site.
You aren’t an angel either.
How many profiles have you rejected by swiping left?
There are a considerable number of them.
Technically, you rejected these women, thinking of them as unsuitable for what you are looking for in a potential partner.
This doesn’t make you a jerk.
You know what you are attracted to, and not every woman on a dating service meets that criteria.
Most women don’t.
You are allowed to be picky as you swipe, in search of the right match for you.
These women that rejected you on a dating site are no different.
One of those women chose not to reply to your message, believing that you weren’t someone she was attracted to.
A different woman had a few message exchanges with you before realizing that there was no romantic chemistry and ended up ignoring further messages from you.
These women had their reasons for rejecting you.
Just as you had your reasons for swiping left and rejecting women in the past.
Randomly meeting or seeing someone that rejected you on a dating site is par the course.
When people search for a potential partner on a dating site, they usually use search parameters to find a match that lives within a few miles of where they live.
Due to this preference, it’s no surprise that people randomly bump into or see someone they matched with locally.
This isn’t unusual.
When you are in these scenarios, avoid seeing it as another opportunity to talk to her.
So many guys make this mistake when they see a girl that rejected them on a dating site in public.
All of a sudden, he approaches her and makes an effort to charm her all over again.
Avoid doing this at all costs.
She rejected you for a reason.
No amount of conversation with her is changing her mind.
A guy that takes this chance meeting too far by talking her ear out, not realizing that all he is doing is taking up her precious time, and annoying her, is putting his account on the dating site at risk.
The next time she logs into her account, which is probably on the day of, she complains to the dating site that this guy was really pushy with her after a chance meeting with him in real life.
The internet dating site takes her complaint seriously and bans your account from their platform.
All of a sudden, your account is up in smoke and nowhere to be found on the dating site.
Once your account is terminated on a reputable dating site, reinstating it is extremely tough and sometimes impossible.
Be forewarned.
You don’t want to lose your account do you?
When you have a chance encounter with a woman that rejected you on a dating site, and she hasn’t seen you, leave her be and mind your own business.
Should eye contact be inadvertently established, smile at her politely to acknowledge her, but leave it at that and keep it moving.