You are not alone when conversations that you have with people online just tend to never go anywhere.

This is an issue that you can remedy.

Deciding not to ever date again online will only make you miss out on an amazing opportunity to find your perfect match.

You should always make sure that the people that you talk to online are looking for the same kind of relationship that you are.

This is something that you should ask them when you are still in the early stages of interacting with them.

People often make the mistake of not asking this question because they worry that in doing so, it would be too forward or eager.

However, you should avoid having this kind of mindset.

If you keep yourself from finding out what kind of relationship that the person is looking for earlier on in your interaction with them, you could end up expending a lot of time and energy on someone who was merely looking for your company online and nothing more.

This can leave you very emotionally depressed and upset. This is especially true if you were thinking that everything was going well with this person and that all of this interaction online was leading somewhere.

Having this kind of exasperating experience is what will often lead you to decide not to ever date again online because your interactions with people never go anywhere.

Simply ask the person about what kind of relationship that they are looking for earlier on.

Then proceed to observe their behavior in order to ascertain whether they were being truthful.

For example, if you were to ask the person about what kind of relationship that they are looking for and they were to tell you that they are looking for a serious relationship, you should still proceed to observe their actions afterward.

If you are also looking for a serious relationship, you may believe that you have met a potential romantic prospect.

However, you shouldn’t get too excited about this until you have observed this person’s actions over time.

Your interactions with people online often never ever goes anywhere because you may tend to get too prematurely excited when someone that you like tells you that they are looking for the same kind of relationship that you are.

In order not to keep finding yourself in the position where you decide to never ever date again online, you need to be smart in how you go about communicating with someone online.

If they have told you that they are looking for a serious relationship, there are certain things that they will do over time that will confirm that.

If they ask you a lot of questions about yourself and show that they remembered what you told them by bringing those topics up in later conversations, this person may have been honest in telling you that they are looking for a serious relationship.

When a person brings up a past topic in future conversations and asks for further elaboration from you, it means that they were paying attention to what you had to say.

They may have even thought about it while they were out and about conducting their day to day business.

They may have remembered something that you said in that conversation that made them curious and hence they bring it up in a future conversation with you in the hopes of getting further elaboration or clarification.

This is someone who was actually thinking about you, outside of your conversation with them online.

When you occupy a person’s head space in this way, it often means that you are someone that they are prioritizing.

A person who is only looking for a casual relationship would not prioritize you nor remember details or minutia about previous conversations.

Another way to know whether this person was being sincere about looking for a serious relationship is in how open the person is about themselves and their lives.

Oftentimes, a person who is truly interested in pursuing a serious relationship with someone will be willing to share details about themselves that they may not be very proud of.

This is so that they are able to let you in on their lives.

They hope that you will be understanding of it.

But they also know that if they were to be in a serious relationship with someone, that person would have to know the good with the bad.

Hence, they are open and incredibly honest with you about themselves.

They are do not hide anything from you.

This is the kind of behavior that lets you know that this person is being real.

Taking these kind of measures with the people that you chat with online can really help you get into situations where your interaction with them ultimately leads somewhere.