I Met A Man Via An Online Dating Service And We Had Sex On The First Date? Will I Hear From Him Again?

I Met A Man Via An Online Dating Service And We Had Sex On The First Date? Will I Hear From Him Again?

There is a good chance that you won’t hear from him again.

Being that you had sex with him on the first date, he may have gotten what he wanted from you and is now satiated.

An online dating service has a lot of dating options.

People will often use it to hook up because there is just so much temptation to do so, even if their initial intent was to find people to date.

When you have sex with a man on the first date, you have given him nothing more to work for.

He has gotten something from you that only required one date to get.

Being that men tend to be hunters by nature, they have an instinct to go for prey and keep at it until they catch it.

Being that this man has already had sex with you on the first date, that instinct to hunt may be gone.

Again, he has already won something from you that he clearly wanted.

Granted, you may believe that the person that you are should be the prize and not just your body.

That is true.

However, oftentimes, what tends to keep a guy courting a girl and getting to know her in the process is that promise of ultimately sleeping with her.

It is the girl that will typically decide when that will happen.

Until then, she is able to keep him courting and chasing her until he is able to actually start really liking the person that she is.

In other words, by keeping the guy in the process of courting you, he is getting to know you better and as a result will have a higher likelihood of getting to like the person that you are.

This is the whole reason why keeping a guy from getting sex on that first date tends to be very effective in getting him to ultimately like the person before he gets the other prize, that being sex.

This is often how guys fall for girls.

When the girl lets him court her and chase her.

If you give him the physical prize of your body too soon, he may not feel the need to exert anymore energy in getting to know you as a person.

In essence, by having sex with this man that you met via an online dating service, you put the cart before the horse.

You may have now taken away the motivation for him to want to get to know you better.

Hence, there is a strong likelihood that you will not hear from him again.

Another reason why you will most likely not hear from him again is because online dating services have made it so much easier for men to get sex from women quickly.

By giving him sex on the first date, you have given him something that a lot of men are now able to get from women that they meet on an online dating service relatively easily.

This means that you are not unique.

By setting this kind of example, he knows that he can get back on the online dating service and find himself another woman that will have sex with him on the first date.

There was a time when men had to work hard to get sex from women.

This is what motivated them to stay in the courtship process.

While being in it, they come to know the woman better and ultimately like her as a person.

This would often happen before getting to have sex with her.

This is what typically helped in keeping the man around.

He got to know the woman first before he got to know her body.

Being that you had sex with this man that you met via an online dating service on the first date, you never gave him the opportunity to like the person you are, before the body.

Even though you may have spoken to this man for a little while on the online dating service before meeting him on this first date, it doesn’t mean that he had spent enough time getting to know you first as a person.

There is something relatively impersonal about communicating with someone on an online dating service in cyberspace.

That person is not quite real until you actually meet each other face to face.

Your first face to face meeting with this man led to sex.

You didn’t give him a chance to start getting to know you as a person in the real world, as opposed to a person that he has been getting to know on an online dating service in cyberspace.

This dramatically lessens the chances that you will hear from him again.