Is It True That On Online Dating Sites, Girls Are Mostly Looking For A Hookup Even Though Their Profiles Say Otherwise?

Is It True That On Online Dating Sites, Girls Are Mostly Looking For A Hookup Even Though Their Profiles Say Otherwise?

It isn’t true.

You may have had some experiences where a girl’s profile said one thing, only for you to discover later on that the girl misrepresented what she was actually looking for.

In essence, she hooked up.

The girls who indicate that they are looking for a serious relationship on their online dating profiles and not a hookup do mean it.

Indeed it may seem as though these girls mean otherwise being that you may have already hooked up with several of them.

Though they hooked up with you, that wasn’t the primary reason why they joined online dating sites.

They may truly be looking for a serious relationship.

That may be their true goal.

In order to facilitate that goal, they may say that they are looking for a serious relationships and no hookups on their online dating profiles.

In their minds, they truly believe that this is what they want.

However, they are still human.

This means that they may get to a point during their stay on online dating sites where they are yet to find that serious long-term relationship.

They may not have been with anyone in a while and their true goal of finding a serious relationship may start getting clouded with their need for physical intimacy.

These girls may try to fight this off for while and remain diligent to their cause.

They may even start making a stronger effort to meet that potential long-term romantic partner by spending more time on online dating sites.

They may increase the number of messages that they tend to send out or start responding to more messages than they normally do.

However, as time has worn on and they are yet to meet that potential long-term partner as indicated on their online dating profiles, they are getting more and more in need of physical intimacy.

They may not have been in a serious relationship for months by now.

These girls are only human.

After a while, they may falter somewhat in their current stance.

Though they are still looking for that long-term serious relationship as indicated on their online dating profiles, they also know that they have physical needs.

Being that they haven’t been in a serious relationships for a while, they are not getting their physical needs met any longer.

Being human, they may only be able to go on without physical intimacy for so long before they absolutely have to have it.

Hence, they hook up with someone from online dating sites.

They may feel guilty after doing this, but they simply could not hold out any longer.

Their primary goal is still in place.

They truly are looking for a serious relationship partner.

However, it may now feel as though they truly mean otherwise because they have now hooked up.

Indeed, they may proceed to hook up again and again with this person so as to have their physical needs continuously met.

This person may even become a friend with benefits.

Again, all of this makes it seem as though this person is being hypocritical about what they were truly looking for as indicated on their online dating profile.

However, they really do want that serious long-term relationship. It is just that they couldn’t hold out any longer as far as their physical needs were concerned.

Even though they have now hooked up with this person and may even hook up with this person again, they are still going to remain active on online dating sites in the hopes that they will eventually meet a serious long-term partner.