Online Dating: Dating Two Guys?

Online Dating: Dating Two Guys?

You may have started online dating and consequently met two guys that you really like to a seemingly equal extent.

You may now have gone out on a few dates with each of those guys and had a really good time on all of the dates.

Now you may be worried that you have put yourself in a difficult predicament.

You like these two guys.

You know that if this keeps up, you are going to have to choose one over the other and you are truly worried about how to go about it.

You may not want to have to face this choice.

You may just want to date them both and somehow make it work.

However, in the back of your mind, you know that it would be very challenging for you to maintain a relationship with two guys.

You would also have to deal with the prospect of these two guys ultimately finding out about each other.

This possibility alone may be enough to make you understand the importance of having to choose one guy over the other.

Your predicament is not unusual when online dating.

Being that there are so many dating options, it is often easy for people who are online dating to discover that they like more than one person.

If you are currently worried about the prospect of continuing to date these two guys, it may be because you may have actually reached a point where you know that you are about to start falling for these guys.

Perhaps you are worried that if you allowed yourself to just go ahead and fall for them, it will make it that much more difficult to let either one of them go.

The fact that you may have actually come to this realization at this time is actually a good thing.

It lets you know that you have not completely allowed yourself to get carried away with the delirious fantasy that you can have them both.

You are actually rational enough to understand that trying to make these two relationships work simultaneously could literally end up costing you both relationships.

You are probably now aware that you are going to have to make a choice.

You are not alone in having to make a choice like this.

Several people who have done online dating have found themselves in this exact predicament.

Though you have been procrastinating on this decision, you are aware that you cannot afford to keep ignoring it any longer.

In choosing who to date exclusively between these two guys, you should ask yourself about which one you can see the furthest into your future.

You should be very careful when you do this exercise.

Oftentimes, people who have experienced this predicament when online dating make the mistake of choosing the guy that gives them the most sense of enjoyment and euphoria.

However, do understand that those feelings tend to be temporary.

Most relationships will have this kind of euphoria at its most intense during the first six months but it will gradually die down over time.

You have to understand that.

Whoever you choose should not be based on how much more euphoric they make you feel over the other.

Again, regardless of how euphoric this guy makes you feel, it will only last for a limited time.

The real relationship begins when this stage of euphoria has ended.

This is what you need to think about as you consider who to choose between the two guys that you met through online dating.

Think about which guy would most likely be the best for your future.

Who do you feel that you can rely on the most?

Who do you feel will be the most likely to stick with you when times are rough?

Who do you feel will continue adoring you just as much even as you age and loose your youthful looks?

Who do you feel that you can trust the most?

These are all very important questions that you need to ask yourself when you are trying to figure out which of these two guys that you are dating would be the best candidate to be your one and only.

By now, you should have a good idea of which guy best fulfills these requirements.

This is the guy that you should choose.