The openers you are using on dating apps aren’t doing enough to capture her attention and compel her to reply to your message.

Think about the opening messages you have sent to women you match with on dating apps, and be honest with yourself.

Are they truly engaging?

If you switched places with the woman, would you be enthused to reply to the message?

Your openers aren’t appealing.

They are too generic, bland, superficial, etc.

You aren’t putting in the work to send openers that persuades a match to reply.

Openers that excite a match are those that include information from their dating profile.

Look at her dating profile carefully.

Send her an opener that addresses information that she included in her dating profile.

Lots of guys don’t do this on dating apps, thanks to their laziness.

These are guys that send generic openers such as, “Hello,” “Hi”, “Hey,” “What’s up?,” etc.

Bland openers such as, “How is your day going?,” “Nice profile,” etc.

Superficial openers such as, “Hey hottie,” “You are so pretty,” “Hello gorgeous,” etc.

These are all openers that don’t inspire a response from a match.

She gets these opening messages from guys on dating apps all the time, and she is bored and tired of them.

She knows that these are guys who aren’t making much of an attempt to get to know her, but prefer taking the easy way out.

He wants to get a reply from her without putting in that much effort to show her that he is interested in getting to know her.

This keeps her from replying to his opener.

Gone are the days that she replied to every message she gets from her matches, out of a sense of courtesy to the messengers.

She doesn’t care anymore.

She has received so many of these dull messages, she no longer responds to them.

This is where you end up when you don’t do the work to create a great opener.

You become like all these men that she has chosen to ignore, given how lethargic their openers are.

Rather than falling into this hole alongside these men, create an opener that is powerful.

Ask an open-ended question in reference to information she included in her bio or dating profile.

If she included information about an activity she is passionate about, use this activity as the source of your opener.

Besides open-ended questions in reference to information she includes in her dating profile, icebreaker questions are also very effective in getting replies from a match.

Icebreaker questions that are focused on general themes relating to pleasant feelings is the right tact.

These are icebreaker questions that ask about what season of the year she loves the most, what her dream vacation is, what personal item she can’t live without, etc.

These delve further into who she is as a person, which makes her excited about responding to the opener.

This is a far cry from the openers she is used to receiving from men on dating apps.

You have set yourself apart.

No longer do you have to worry about what you have been doing wrong with your openers.

Finally, you are doing openers right and receiving responses from your matches.