There hasn’t been much luck in finding a perfect man on a dating site.

You have received several matches with men and gotten into several conversations with them.

Some dates have been had.

Notwithstanding, none of these were your perfect man.

There have been situations where you thought you had found him.

Unfortunately, it didn’t work out.

Conversations that started with so much promise sputtered out.

First dates that were arranged with so much anticipation ended up in disappointment.

Such bad luck.

It’s as though you have been cursed.

It’s not like you are asking for anything in a perfect man that you don’t possess.

You have much to offer too.

As a woman in great shape and with a great career, you bring much to the table, aesthetically and financially.

Personality-wise, you are witty and adventurous.

Any man lucky enough to be with you is in for an exciting and fulfilling relationship.

All you want is a perfect man to share your amazing life with.

After all the good accounts you had heard about dating sites, you thought your luck was about to change for the better when you signed up.

Dating sites are all the rage. It seems like everyone is on them.

Yet, you aren’t finding your perfect man and you are thinking you never will.

The problem isn’t your dating profile.

It’s fantastic.

Your photos are phenomenal and your bio is well-written.

It should be enough to attract the perfect man.

The clock keeps ticking, and to no avail, your perfect man is nowhere on the digital horizon.

I know how frustrating it gets to be in a position where you continue to struggle to find a perfect man on a dating site.

Especially when dating sites are all the rage.

Nevertheless, there is hope.

A dating site is a perfect place to find your perfect man, but you have to have the right mindset to get what you want out of it.

Firstly, figure out what a perfect man embodies to you.

Be realistic.

No one is without flaws.

If you have unrealistic expectations, you won’t find your perfect man.

That’s because a perfect man doesn’t exist.

You have to come to terms with this.

Too many people join dating sites believing that their perfect partner is waiting.

Much of this has to do with unrealistic notions about dating sites.

Seemingly endless stories about how a friend, family member, or coworker found their other half on a dating site.

This has led many people new to online dating to believe that they are in line to meet their other half too.

What these folks don’t realize is that the people with success stories are those who weren’t unrealistic about what they were looking for.

Many of those who have found their life partners on dating sites weren’t looking for a perfect partner.

They had realistic notions about what they were seeking.

Adopting this realistic mindset works in your favor.

Remember, whoever is behind any dating profile you are presented with is human.

A human being with flaws.

With this realistic mindset, use a fresh approach with the next promising match you connect with on a dating site.

Avoid getting too excited about him as you chat and get to know each other.

Instead of getting ahead of yourself with grandiose visualizations, let this connection unfold naturally.

Unrealistic expectations has worked against you so far.

When they are too high, you are inevitably disappointed, no matter how good the first date is.