Attractive girls want to find their special someone just as much as anyone else.

Although it seems unusual that an attractive girl, who can seemingly attract any man she wants in the real world, would get on a dating site, it isn’t all that peculiar when you know what her reasoning is.

Being an attractive girl, she doesn’t have any issues attracting male attention in the real world.

The problem lies in the type of men she attracts.

She is attracting men who look good on the outside, but offer little for the long term.

Yes, she has had her fun with several of these men.

She got caught up in his swag and brashness.

She was taken by how he knew exactly what to say in the right moments, giving her a rush of dopamine that was addicting.

These men gave her a constant dose of excitement, danger, and unpredictability.

Once she got past the preliminary thrill of dating these men, the same problematic issues occurred.

She is waiting for days for him to reply to her text messages and voicemails, which are in the dozens.

In such moments, she is filled with anxiety about the possibility that he isn’t replying to her text messages and answering her phone calls on account of being with another woman.

A woman that he is seducing with the same aplomb he did her in the early stages of their relationship.

Furthermore, she is exasperated with his inability to take his future seriously by getting and keeping a real job that isn’t a dead-end, or finishing his college degree.

She is tired of repeatedly bailing him out of jail, or stopping him from getting into fights on a night out at the local bar.

To make matters worse, she is tormented by his social media activity, as he likes and follows the social media accounts of girls that look like her, and those that are even more attractive, many of whom have several photos on their social media profiles of themselves in sexy outfits, leaving little to the imagination.

It isn’t fun either, coming home after a hard day’s work and looking through his phone to learn that he has exchanged several sexually explicit text messages with some girl he has saved under a fake name in his contacts.

She is fed up with all of it.

These are the sort of men she attracts in the real world.

Stunning-looking on the outside, but without a future, and with little respect for the fundamentals of decorum and appropriate behavior in a relationship.

This is what leads attractive girls to dating sites.

She wants the best of both worlds.

Yes, she still wants a stunning-looking man, who has swag and oodles of charisma, but she also wants him to have a real job that comes with a steady source of income, and a clear plan for his future.

She wants to match with a great-looking man who has the ability to thrill her with his words, but also reassure her with his emotional and intellectual intelligence.

A man that is superb-looking, but isn’t a self-centered diva.

She wants a do-over.

She is on dating sites to correct the mistakes she has made in men she has dated in the real world.