If a guy that you met on a dating site just told you that he’s a virgin, it may be because he wants to be forthright and open with you, especially at this particular time in your interaction.

At his current age, he may believe that he should no longer be a virgin.

All of his friends who are of his age are probably no longer virgins.

He may feel quite awkward about the fact that he’s a virgin.

He may have even been out on dates with a few girls in the past who eventually discovered that he was a virgin and were turned off by this.

Everything may have been going well with these girls until they discovered that he was a virgin.

In telling you that he’s a virgin, he may just want to protect himself.

He may not want to find himself beginning to fall for you as the both of you get to know each other better on a dating site, only to have you stop talking to him because you eventually discover that he’s a virgin.

He may not want to put himself in this position.

Hence, he would rather tell you now that he’s a virgin and let you do whatever it is that you choose to do, than talk to you for a while and fall into the trap of falling for you.

If this guy on a dating site just told you that he is a virgin, he may have reached the point during his interaction with you where he knows that he could easily fall for you.

Being that he may have had negative experiences in the past when he revealed that he was a virgin or when he showed a lack of sexual experience, he may not want to put himself in a vulnerable position yet again.

In telling you that he is a virgin now, he will be able to observe how you react to that news.

If you choose not to continue talking to him because of it, he would have saved himself the heartache of allowing himself to fall for you over the course of the next few weeks, only to have you react poorly to the fact that he is a virgin once that is revealed.

He just wants to get the fact that he is a virgin out in the open now.

He wants to see what you do with this information.

If you are not sure about what you should do, you should ask yourself about why you may be hesitating.

If you are hesitating, there is a root cause of it.

It may be because you worry about his lack of sexual experience?

It may even be because you worry about whether he has some deeper emotional issues?

Whatever the reason, it is best to do what you feel is best for you.

If the fact that he’s a virgin is such a problem to you, you shouldn’t make the mistake of making yourself believe that you will be able to get over it.

There is a reason why you may be currently hesitating at the revelation of this news.

Even if you were to put that reason aside for now, it will still arise at some point during your interaction with him.

At that point, you may realize that you are unable to get past the fact that he’s a virgin.

This would mean that you would have wasted each other’s time.

Hence, if you are not sure about what to do, first ask yourself about why you are suddenly hesitating.

If you don’t care about the fact that he has a lack of sexual experience but do worry about the possibility that he may have some deeper issues with insecurity, you could ask him about it.

Being that he has been this honest in telling you that he is a virgin, he would welcome open and honest discourse from you.

Simply ask him about whether he has any insecurity issues.

He will most likely be honest with you about that.

If his answer makes you feel like he is someone that you can still get along with, then you should continue talking to him and see where things lead.

However, if his answer makes you worry that his insecurity issues go really deep and you just don’t want to have to deal with them as you get to know each other better, it may be best to let him go and move on.