Keep yourself from asking a girl to meet up with you on a date too soon.
Oftentimes, a guy can get so excited about a girl that he has just started chatting with on a dating site that he may be too quick with asking the girl to meet up on a date in real life.
He may not even be necessarily looking for a one night stand in asking her out on a date so soon.
He may have simply allowed himself to get carried away with how good he feels about the girl and may have consequently asked her out too soon as a result.
The girl, on the other hand, may feel that it is too soon to meet, being that she has only been chatting with the guy for a few days on the dating site.
She may take the haste in his request to meet on a date as a sign that he is looking for a one night stand.
Being a girl on a dating site, she has most likely already experienced something like this from other guys on the dating site.
A girl receives a lot more messages on a dating site than guys do.
In that mix, she is bound to come across guys who are instantly propositioning her to meet up with them or even sleep with them too soon.
Hence, a girl may already have her guard up whenever she is chatting with any guy on a dating site.
If you give her reason to believe that you are just out there for a one night stand, she may stop communicating with you altogether on the dating site.
You may have never had the intention of getting involved in a one night stand with the girl.
But, you were simply too quick to ask her out on that date and that may ruin everything for you.
This is why you should keep control of your emotions.
No matter how much you believe that you are connecting with a particular girl on a dating site, make a conscious effort to avoid asking her out too soon.
A good way for a guy to show that he’s not just out there for a one night stand on a dating site is by remembering the details of what she talks about.
If she gives you some details about herself in conversation, pay attention to them.
At some point in time, she may bring that topic up again.
She does this to test you in order to ascertain whether you were paying attention to what she had to say in past conversations.
In being able to remember these details, you would be showing her that you were paying attention to what she had to say.
Guys who just want one night stands will typically not remember details about conversations or topics because they are so focused on ultimately satisfying their own physical needs.
By paying attention to what she tells you about herself, you will really put her in a position where she feels that she can start letting her guard down with you.
You will impress her and she may start feeling the need to start opening up to you even more as a result.
By opening up to you even more, she is allowing herself to start becoming more vulnerable.
This is often a very good sign that a girl is feeling much safer around a guy.
Once you have gotten a girl to this level of trust, she may actually start hinting to you that she wants to meet, in the hopes that you will take the hint and ask her out.