She may have reactivated her account because she may not have been happy with how the first date went.
Everything may have started well enough on that first date with this girl that you met on an online dating site.
However, as the date wore on, there may have been something that just wasn’t clicking for her.
Even though her outward appearance gave you the impression that she was having a good time, there is a good chance that she wasn’t having as good of a time as she was showing.
Think back to that first date.
Even though you think that everything seemingly went well, try not to allow outward appearances to cloud your judgment.
There is a good chance that at some point during that date, she gave away the fact that she wasn’t having a particularly good time.
Perhaps it was when you tried to get close to her and she maintained her distance.
Perhaps it was when you asked her a relatively meaningful question but she came back with a very frivolous, unsubstantial response.
Perhaps it was when you first met each other and she didn’t quite have that energy in her response to you that she had demonstrated during your chats with her on the online dating site.
Indeed, she may have reactivated her account on the online dating site because she wasn’t entirely happy with what she saw when she first met you on that first date.
Yes, this can be a difficult reality to accept.
But, there have been countless first and only dates between people who initially became acquainted on an online dating site because someone wasn’t happy with what they saw when they met up in real life.
Take a look at your online dating profile.
Are your pictures representative of how you look today?
Be honest with yourself.
This is often an area where people try to mislead themselves.
They post pictures that show how they looked years ago under the false belief that they haven’t changed much.
Well, you just may have.
Perhaps you have added a number of extra pounds since those pictures were taken.
Perhaps you have aged quite a bit since those pictures were taken.
She may have been expecting the person that she saw in those online dating profile pictures when she met you in life.
However, upon meeting you, she may have been disappointed that your pictures simply didn’t represent how you actually look in present day.
With this realization, she may have tried to remain civil through that first date.
However, in the back of her mind, she already knew that she would reactivate her account on the dating site the moment that she had a chance.
Now, if you feel that you did not misrepresent how you look on your dating profile, she may have reactivated her account because she simply felt a lack of chemistry with you.
Again, she may have noticed that something just wasn’t clicking as that first date wore on.
Oftentimes, people may share chemistry as they chat on an online dating site but may lack chemistry when they actually meet in real life.
Again, the subtle signs may have already been there that you didn’t pick up on from a body language that may have been relatively aloof or stiff to a lack of effort in trying to get to know you.
You may have been the one asking all or most of the questions.
Sometimes, this may be because of shyness.
However, if she has reactivated her account on the dating site, there is a good chance that it was a result of simply losing interest.