Women on dating apps would much rather the man travel to her first.
If you are in a situation where there is long distance between you, consider traveling to her first.
When a man demonstrates a willingness to travel to a woman first, it gives her the impression that he is for real and is taking her seriously.
Now, if you are stubborn and you don’t want to travel all the way to her for a date, and would much rather the woman travel, the next best option is to meet her halfway.
Women on dating apps see the logic in this.
She is aware that you are a long distance match and that meeting each other won’t be as easy as hopping in a rideshare and going downtown.
She is open to the idea that it is only fair to meet each other halfway.
Meeting each other halfway shortens the distance that she has to travel.
As far as the distance a woman is willing to travel for a date, it boils down to the amount of time you two have spent talking to each other and how good the rapport is.
The longer you have talked to her, asking the right questions, connecting with her on common interests, and opening yourself up to her, the greater the rapport.
In this vain, she is willing to travel for hundreds or thousands of miles to meet you on a date.
The shorter a time you have talked her, you get to build a degree of rapport, but nowhere near enough to have her be willing to travel for hundreds or thousands of miles to meet you on a date.
This is your measuring stick.
Let’s say you two have been talking for a handful of days on a dating app and you want to meet her on a date.
This early, she isn’t as emotionally invested in you and you haven’t given it enough time to build rock solid rapport.
This has her willing to travel no more than 30 miles to meet you.
Let’s suppose you have been talking to her for about a month, building great rapport with her, she is willing to travel further to meet you on a date, but no more than 60 miles.
When it has been 3 months or more, she is willing to get on a plane and fly for hundreds or thousands of miles to meet you on a date.
However long you have been talking to her, building excellent rapport in the process, equates to how far she is willing to travel for a date.
How long have you been talking to this woman?
If you have been talking for a handful of days and live hundreds or thousands of miles away, you stand much less of a chance of getting her to travel to meet you on a date, regardless of whether you are willing to meet her halfway.
Meeting you halfway would still be hundreds or thousands of miles of traveling.
To reiterate, a woman on a dating app prefers a man travel to her first, regardless of how long she has been talking to him and how far away he lives.
But if you are going to make her travel, you have a better shot at getting her to do it over longer distances when you have spent a good while building formidable rapport with her.