It would be best not to keep communicating with him for too long while online dating.

The longer you stay on an online dating site communicating with no action to see each other in reality, the less likely that this meeting will happen.

To get him to want to see you in reality and keep it that way, you should focus on building a sufficient amount of rapport with him.

Ask him some good questions about himself and be open about yourself within reason.

Be fun in your conversations and be descriptive about fun activities that you have done in the past and are currently engaged in.

This gives him a good idea of what your life is like and what spending some time with you in the real world could be like.

The more descriptive and enthusiastic you are about these activities that you engage in, the more excited that you will most likely get him.

This continuously helps him to envision what going out with you would be like.

Also, find commonalities with him in terms of the kind of activities that he likes to engage in.

If there are activities that he enjoys engaging in that you have also done or tend to do, let him know about that.

This tends to create a connection.

This may be what leads him to want to see you in reality and keep it that way.

Being that he knows that you have either engaged in some of these activities yourself or that you are open to doing so, he may become more motivated to want to see you so as to engage in some of those activities together with you.

You really need to show him a strong degree of excitement when you talk about your life and the activities that you engage in.

He should get the sense of just how willing you are to be active and to even try new activities.

This could be what makes him feel as though you would be someone fun to hang out with or go on a date with.

This feeling alone could be what makes him want to see you in reality and keep it that way.

Something else that you can do to make this guy that you met on an online dating site want to see you in reality and keep it that way is to give him a sense of urgency.

A mistake that girls often make when they really like a guy that they met on an online dating site is that they tend to operate on his time.

They worry that by trying to get the guy to meet them sooner, they would turn him off in being too forward or eager.

As a result, they leave that to the guy in the hopes that he will ask them out in the near future.

Indeed, some guys will ask the girl out in a respectable amount of time, but there are also guys who won’t.

You could find yourself in a position where you have been waiting on this guy to ask you out for weeks and he has yet to do so.

Sometimes, this comes about due to a guy being worried about the same thing you are, being too forward or eager.

In other cases, there are guys who will simply chat with a girl on an online dating site to kill time with no intention of ever asking her out.

Either way, you want to make sure that you don’t waste your time with a guy who either never ends up asking you out because he is too shy to do so or a guy who has no intention of ever asking you out.

You can create a sense of urgency in a guy when you give him the feeling that he doesn’t have all the time in the world.

One of the most effective ways to do this is by giving him the impression that may not be on the online dating site for much longer.

This works best if you are using a paid online dating site.

In conversations with him, you can drop hints here and there about the likelihood that you will let your membership expire and not renew it when the time comes, as you aren’t quite sure whether you want to continue online dating.

By divulging this information sporadically in conversations that you have with him, you would be planting the seeds of urgency in his mind.

He will realize that he doesn’t have all the time in the world to simply keep communicating with you on the online dating site without making any moves to see you in reality and keep it that way.

If he truly likes you, giving him the consistent impression that you may let your paid membership expire on the online dating site will most likely give him the push he needs to ask you to see him in reality.

If he doesn’t truly like you, then he will not have a sense of urgency and thereby he will still not try to make a push to see you in reality. This means that you are dealing with a time waster and it may be best to stop taking up precious time and effort in chatting with him on the online dating site.