As a woman looking for a husband while dating online, a rule that you need to abide by is to keep yourself from coming off as too eager to get married.
Pay close attention to this.
Men who are dating online will often be very hesitant to continue communicating with women who seem like they would marry them tomorrow.
You should be very careful that you don’t give men this impression as this is something that you may not even be aware of it.
You may be having a natural conversation with the man and let something slip that may cause him to pause within himself.
Some of the ways that you can slip and scare off the man who may have become your husband in the future is when you tend to mention the recent weddings of people that you know.
You may do this inadvertently, but many men can easily pick up on this and misconstrue it.
When you are having conversation with men and happen to mention that your coworker just got married or your best friend from High School or your neighbor, you will start sending premature signals to these men that you really want to get married.
This may have never been your intention by mentioning this.
However, many men who repeatedly hear you mention stuff like this will start getting the feeling that you are trying to tell them that you want to get married.
This could make them really worried that you are too eager to get married and they may stop communicating with you as a result.
So, you really need to watch what you say.
Another one of the most important rules for women looking for a husband while dating online is to avoid asking men that they are interacting with about their previous relationships, especially if that previous relationship happened to be an ex-wife.
This may be another area where you may be totally unaware of what you are doing.
You may simply be curious about his ex-wife or you may simply wonder whether they co-parent, if there are children involved.
However, every time that you bring up something that has to do with his ex-wife, no matter how harmless, you may trigger most men to worry.
They may worry that you are trying too hard to fill the vacant slot of “wife.”
They may worry that you are trying to learn too much about their previous marriage in an attempt to draw sharp contrasts with their ex-wife so that you can make yourself look better than her.
They may even worry that by bringing up their ex-wife in discussion, you may be hoping to get clues from her behavior that may help you get him to ultimately marry you.
In other words, you may be trying to gather as much information as you can, albeit in bits and pieces, in order to learn about what their ex-wife did to be able to nab them as a husband.
Perhaps you discover that his ex-wife had a way of preparing them a particular dish or a way of rubbing their feet at night.
Again, these men can really come up with all kinds of reasons in their minds as to why you are bringing up their ex-wife in conversation, no matter how ridiculous they may sound to you.
Another one of the most important rules for women looking for a husband while dating online is to avoid asking him about the future so much.
If you get into the habit of asking him about what he plans to do about this or that in the future, you may worry him.
So much future talk tends to make men worry that you are trying to dictate which direction you want them to take.
They may worry that you are already playing the role of wife before they have even learned about what your favorite TV shows are.
Too much talk about the future can chase men away who would have been great candidates for a husband.