You fear that listing seeking a “life partner” where provided on a dating app makes you look like you are ready to find that partner right now.
You worry that people will assume that you are in a hurry to meet this life partner without doing your due diligence.
This makes sense, but you need not worry about the effect it has to list that you are seeking a life partner on a dating app.
It isn’t overbearing at all.
After all, that is why you are on a dating app?
Don’t lose sight of that.
You want to attract people who are seeking the same.
The last thing you want is to waste your time talking to numerous women who have no intention of finding a life partner and are merely on a dating app for the attention.
Listing that you are seeking a life partner makes your intentions clear, saving you the trouble of attracting women who don’t have the same intentions.
The right woman won’t assume that you are ready to put a ring on her finger the moment you two match.
You have a whole dating profile to showcase your personality and what your lifestyle is like.
Listing that you are seeking a life partner is just one small section of your dating profile.
There is the rest of your dating profile to fill.
This is where you show what you are about.
The right woman is way more concerned with what you have in your dating profile as a whole.
Are you personable?
Adventurous?
Witty?
Charismatic?
There is so much to you and this is what she wants to learn.
Listing that you are seeking a life partner becomes overbearing when your dating profile is completely dominated by this one goal.
All you are talking about is how much you want a life partner who completes you.
You keep talking about what you two would do together if given a chance and how great of a boyfriend or future husband you would be.
This is when it gets overbearing.
When everything you write about concerns that future girlfriend or wife and there is little to no indication that you are your own person.
Hopefully, this isn’t you.
You are much more than a guy who is on a dating app desperately hoping to meet a life partner to live his best life with.
You aren’t waiting around hoping someone helps you figure out who you are or what your life goals should be.
That isn’t you at all.
You are living your best life right now.
As you constantly engage in hobbies and interests that you love, achieve amazing goals that you set for yourself, and evolve as a person, you are living your best life.
This is reflected in the rest of your dating profile.
It is this that attracts the right woman to you.
A woman who listed that she is seeking a life partner or is open to that, but isn’t worried in the slightest that you are ready to put a ring on her finger the moment she swipes right on your dating profile, thanks to how you constructed the rest of your dating profile.