It’s aggravating to be shown dating profiles that are completely outside your filters.
At this point, it feels like you are being played with.
Unfortunately, you aren’t having any fun playing this game.
Every time you are presented with a dating profile of a person who is completely outside your filters, you want to pull your hair out and scream at the top of your lungs.
Not again.
This is not a game, and your time is precious.
Your time was a major reason why you decided to use a dating app in the first place.
With a busy lifestyle, you don’t have a whole lot of time to get out there and find a partner.
With your time being so precious, to be shown dating profiles that are completely outside of your filters, goes against the idea behind joining a dating app in the first place.
It’s precious time lost looking at dating profiles that don’t match what you are looking for in a partner.
Indeed, your current plight on a dating app is exasperating, but there are remedies.
Look at your filters.
Are they stringent?
Stringent filters are harder to meet.
An algorithm on a dating app will have trouble showing dating profiles that match your filters when those filters are too rigid.
For example, if you have a filter that stipulates that you want to be matched with a woman of a specific age range within a specific distance in which said woman is in short supply, you should consider expanding your distance parameters.
Stuff like this is what makes it harder for an algorithm to show you dating profiles that match your filters.
There needs to be a give and take.
Compromising in some areas, makes it easier for you to get better matches.
Consider the likelihood that you are on the wrong dating app.
Not every dating app is created equal.
There are dating apps that cater to specific needs that others don’t.
Did you do your research before signing up on a dating app?
People erroneously join the most well-known dating apps, without considering whether the dating app is the right fit.
A large or popular dating app isn’t always the right fit.
You are better off signing up on a dating app that caters to what you are specifically looking for in a partner.
Though smaller in size, you are exposed to people who are a better fit for what you are looking for, and this works in your favor.
How proactive have you been so far on your dating app of choice?
Have you been sitting back waiting on the dating app to send you matches?
Whether you have a busy schedule or not, you must make time to be more proactive.
If you are using a dating app that gives you the ability to proactively seek out a match, do it.
As a dating app’s algorithm sees you seeking out dating profiles of this ilk, it realizes this is what you are attracted to.
Algorithms on dating apps watch and mimic behavior.
Once it sees you consistently behaving a certain way, it makes an adjustment, and launches into showing you dating profiles that are more of what it has seen you proactively seeking out.