Yes, it would be creepy if you were to message her on another dating site asking about why she unmatched you.
There is a reason why she unmatched you on the first dating site that the both of you were chatting on.
Even though you felt that the interaction was going well on that first dating site, clearly, there was something that turned her off.
It is understandable that you would be uncomfortable with the fact that she unmatched you.
You may even tell yourself that there must have been some kind of accident.
After all, the both of you were having a good interaction.
You could make yourself believe all kinds of excuses because you just don’t want to believe that this girl has unmatched you when everything seemed to be going so well.
This way of thinking is often what leads you to feel justified in messaging her on another dating site that you happen to see her on and proceeding to ask her about why she unmatched you.
You really want to believe that it must have been some kind of mistake.
You are really hoping that the both of you can just get back to how it was when you both initially started chatting on that first dating site.
You are so blinded by this desire that you can’t even see how creepy you are being.
You shouldn’t allow your desires to get the best of you.
Again, she unmatched you for a reason.
It wasn’t an accident.
It wasn’t a technical error of some sort.
She just realized that she wasn’t feeling the right kind of connection with you.
It is often through conversations that people discover whether someone else will be a good match.
Your dating profile may have caught her attention or she may have liked what she saw.
This was probably why she matched with you.
However, do understand that even though a girl may feel connected to what you had to say in your dating profile, that doesn’t mean that she will feel that same kind of connection upon chatting with you.
Sometimes, people just have the misconception that there will be a spontaneous connection with someone that they matched with, simply because of what was said in each other’s dating profiles.
How much a person connects to your dating profile doesn’t guarantee that they will experience the same connection with you upon chatting with you in real time.
Oftentimes, women especially, still have to feel an emotional or compatible connection with you upon chatting with you.
If they don’t feel the connection as they chat with you in real time, they will easily lose interest.
Again, it doesn’t matter how much of a connection they may have felt upon visiting your dating profile.
If they don’t feel that same connection upon chatting with you, they could easily unmatch you and move on.
If you message her on another dating site asking her about why she unmatched you, not only will she find that creepy, but she may even proceed to block you entirely.
No girl wants to feel as though they are being stalked by a desperate guy.
That is never a good look for you.