It’s so dead on the dating apps you are on.
You have seen an obvious drop in matches and dating app activity since the summer began.
It has left you thinking that dating apps aren’t a good option for finding dates in the summer, considering everyone is on vacation.
Dating apps aren’t a waste of time in the summer.
Yes, lots of people go on vacation over the summer.
But, a good number of them continue using dating apps while they are on vacation.
Sure, she isn’t as fast to respond to your message, given that she is out on a beach having pine coladas with her girl friends, but she does get to it sooner or later.
People don’t forget about their love lives while on vacation with family or friends.
If anything, being single is much more evident when she is on vacation.
What she would give to go on vacation with a prospective boyfriend.
She would love that.
It isn’t at the forefront of her mind on vacation, but it is in the back of her mind, persisting, rising to the top whenever she sees a happy couple walk by her.
Yes, she loves the idea of walking around holding her prospective boyfriend’s hand, chuckling and eating ice cream, as they see the sights.
She wants to be that happy woman.
A vacation doesn’t change that.
Don’t be discouraged with the reduced number of matches on dating apps over the summer.
It doesn’t mean that dating apps are a waste of time.
Patience is required in terms of how quickly a match responds to your message, but an ongoing conversation isn’t out of the question.
Besides this, there are women who have vacations planned but never end up fulfilling them.
Something falls through.
A friend had to drop out at the last minute, making the trip more expensive than was originally planned.
A family member gets sick.
Expected vacation time from work is rescinded.
Vacation plans fall through all the time.
Where does that leave her?
She might as well get on a dating app and see what’s out there.
That’s where you come in.
Being that it is the summer months, some guys are on vacation too.
This means that you won’t have as much competition in matching with her and keeping a conversation going.
Given that her vacation plans fell through, you are in the ideal position to cheer her up and redirect her mind to more pleasant thoughts.
This creates a bond between you over time.
By the time the summer is done, she is thankful that her vacation plans fell through, as it opened the door to her meeting you.
During the summer, although dating app activity decreases, girls are actively communicating in other mediums.
She isn’t spending as much time on a dating app, but she continues to spend a good amount of time on her social media or SMS.
The trick is to avoid staying on a dating app for too long after matching with her.
After a few text messages, either ask her out on a date or exchange contact information.
This way, you either get a date, if she isn’t on vacation, or you get to communicate with her on a medium outside of the dating app that she is more active on, especially over the summer.