There are girls who join a dating website when they aren’t ready for a relationship.
The girls that do this may have had a recent breakup.
They are finding it hard to deal with that breakup.
There have been some emotional repercussions due to the breakup that they are having a difficult time overcoming.
Hence, they get to a point where they choose to join a dating website even though they aren’t ready for a relationship because they want a distraction.
They are hoping that they will be able to meet guys who are able to take their minds away from the heartbreak of the breakup.
They are not emotionally available to these guys.
However, they may still want to talk to these guys and even go out on dates with them because they just want to get away from constantly having to think about their previous relationship.
Some of these girls hope that the guys that they meet on a dating website may surprise them.
They may hope that they can meet a guy on a dating website who truly makes them forget about the breakup.
They may hope that this guy may be so special that they are magically healed of the emotional heartbreak that they are still experiencing from the breakup.
These girls may be so desperate to overcome their emotional struggle with the breakup that they hope that a guy that they meet on a dating website can make all of it somehow disappear.
However, oftentimes, they only end up getting into rebound relationships with guys that they meet on a dating website.
The guys are simply not able to get them to a point where they can totally forget about their ex and move on.
Hence, these girls end up having to break up with these guys eventually because they are simply not emotionally available to them.
They have not allowed themselves to totally heal from the emotional effects of the breakup.
They chose to join a dating website in the hopes that they could meet someone that would take away that emotional pain.
However, these guys are often unable to change how they were affected by the breakup.
These girls eventually come to a conclusion that they already suspected before they even joined a dating website.
They are just not emotionally available to date anyone regardless of how many dates that they go on with these guys or how many relationships that they try to start with them.
If you are looking for a serious relationship, you should always be weary of girls who aren’t ready for a relationship but still choose to join a dating website.
They may mislead a lot of guys that they talk to on a dating website by giving those guys the impression that they are looking for a serious relationship.
Those guys end up investing a lot of time and effort in talking to them and taking them out on dates only to eventually discover that she was never emotionally available to them.
This could leave some of them in a bad place emotionally as well.
They may have already developed feelings for this girl only to discover that she was never emotionally available to them.
Hence, you should always be careful about the girls that you choose to talk to on a dating website when it comes to those that are truly ready for a relationship.
When you talk to girls on a dating website who indicated that they are looking for a serious relationship on their dating profiles, always ask them about how long ago their last relationship was.
If it hasn’t been long since that last relationship, you should be very cautious in how you interact with her.
She may not be over the breakup yet.
Also, if you notice that she rarely asks you deeper and more substantive questions about yourself when you are both engaged in conversation, there is a chance that she is not ready for a relationship either.
In doing this, she may be indicating that she doesn’t have much room in her mind to learn too much about you because there is someone else that is occupying the majority of her thoughts.
That other person may be an ex that she hasn’t gotten over.