Grew Attached To A Guy While Online Dating For A Year, But Not So Crazy About His Appearance In Real Life?

Grew Attached To A Guy While Online Dating For A Year, But Not So Crazy About His Appearance In Real Life?

You may not be so crazy about his appearance in real life but take solace in the fact that you would not be the only who has gone through this.

This is a guy who may have misrepresented the way he truly appears in real life on his online dating profile.

You got to know him and grew attached over the course of a year on the online dating site and during that time, you may have only had a photo or two of him on his online dating profile to help you know what he looked like.

If this is the case, those online dating photos may not have been of the best quality.

This is why you should always ensure that you have seen quality photos of someone before you start interacting with them on an online dating site.

You started communicating with this guy on the online dating site and grew attached to him over the course of a year with possibly only a couple of low quality photos to judge his appearance by.

A guy can easily put up photos that are misleading in his online dating profile.

If he never has a full body shot in any of his online dating profile photos, there is a good chance that he is hiding something.

If he has face shots that are mostly taken from a distance or odd angles, there is a good chance that he is either trying to hide imperfections on his face or make himself look more physically appealing.

These are all cues you should take note of before you start talking to any guy on an online dating site.

Before taking the risk of growing attached to a guy on an online dating site, you should have a very good idea of his appearance beforehand.

This means that if you were to notice that he has these kind of low quality photos, you should either avoid communicating with him or ask him if he can post better quality photos on his online dating profile.

You shouldn’t be afraid to take these measures.

After all, this is your precious time and effort that you are about to expend on someone.

You need to know that this will be time and effort that is being directed to someone whose appearance you find to be appealing or at least, appealing enough for you.

You may not be so crazy about his appearance in real life because he may not be as tall as you thought he would be.

He may have even lied about his height on his online dating profile.

Lying about height is actually one of the most popular lies that guys tell on their online dating profile.

Guys who lie about their height are often worried that most women are looking for men who are tall.

As a result, they lie about their height in the hopes that they can get the woman’s attention.

Their intent is to try to win her over with their personalities, professional qualifications or possessions.

These guys who lie about their height on online dating sites are often unhappy with themselves and have low self-esteem.

They may have been rejected by women in the real world and have attributed those experiences to the fact that they are short or aren’t tall enough.

However, their height may have had nothing to do with it.

The women who rejected them in the real world may have done so because they were unhappy with the attitude of said guys.

However, these guys may just convince themselves that they were rejected for only the superficial reason of height.

This makes them unwilling to put in any work into their personalities or how they approach relationships in general.

You may have grown attached to this guy while online dating over the course of a year because he was successful in hiding this from you.

However, if you have now met this guy in real life and you aren’t so crazy about his appearance because he is a lot shorter than he represented himself to be on the online dating site, there is a good chance that he also has unsavory character flaws.

Hence, this may be a guy that you should avoid.

He may be relentless in trying to change your mind but you should be careful.

If he was willing to lie about his height, there could be a number of other things that he has been dishonest with you about.