Let him know that you would rather he didn’t say “I love you” and would prefer that the both of you get to know each other better first.
He is getting really caught up in who he desires you to be, regardless of the fact that the both of you have never met in person.
Oftentimes, when a man is this quick with saying “I love you,” he may have already been really predisposed to falling in love.
In other words, when he joined the internet dating site, he already knew that he wanted to fall in love with someone rapidly.
He may have had a bad breakup with an ex not too long ago.
He may miss the love and attention that he used to get from her.
When he joined an internet dating site, he was probably really hoping that he would quickly find someone that he could love as much as he loves her.
He enjoyed the feeling of being in love with her and he misses it.
Now that he happened to meet you on an internet dating site, you may have actually reminded him a lot about her.
Perhaps it’s in the way you communicate with him or even the fact that you seem to like some of the same things that she did.
This makes him feel that much more connected to you.
It also gives him reason to believe that he has found the right one for him even though the both of you haven’t met in person.
As far as he is concerned, he already knows how you will be if he were to meet you in person.
Being that you already have all these similarities to his ex girlfriend, he believes the he would share the same kind of romantic chemistry with you if he were to meet you in person.
As a result, he allows himself to quickly fall in love with you.
Again, you should handle this by letting him know that you would rather he didn’t say “I love you” because you want the both of you get to know each other better first.
If this man that you haven’t met in person yet is truly intent on continuing this correspondence, he will most likely agree to this.
However, do understand that if this is a man who has had a difficult breakup recently, he may still be very much in love with his ex girlfriend.
Even though he may say “I love you,” it may be because he is thinking about his ex as opposed to you.
If he is hoping to replace his ex with you and you have similar traits to her, he may simply be professing the love that he still has for his ex as opposed to his love for you as a unique and separate individual.
This is why you should be very careful at this point.
As you talk to him in conversation, don’t be shy to ask him about his previous relationships.
You need to give yourself some perspective on whether this man is still caught up on an ex girlfriend.
If you don’t try to establish this earlier on, you could end up falling in love with this man.
If you were to actually get into a relationship with this man, he may try to get you to become the surrogate copy of his ex girlfriend.
He may buy you the exact kind of clothing and jewelry that he would get for her.
He may call you the exact nickname that he called his ex girlfriend or some similar variation of it.
He may also try to get you to call him the same nickname that she would call him.
He may take you to the same places that he took her to.
He may even start asking you to change a few things about your physical appearance such as your hairdo just so that you resemble her as much as possible.
A relationship like this is often only going to lead to despair and thereby a waste of your efforts.
You will come to the bitter understanding that he is actually not in love with you.
He is only in love with a surrogate copy of his ex girlfriend.