He is trying to have his cake and eat it too by having the best of both worlds.

He wants to make you believe that he loves you and thereby plant a sense of security in your mind as a result.

This way, you react with happiness and decide to remain committed.

Meanwhile, he maintains his online dating profiles and says that he is single on social media so that he can keep his dating options open.

A boyfriend telling you that he loves you while having online dating profiles and saying the he is single on social media is normally the type of guy who is very self-centered.

He makes himself believe that he is doing you a favor by telling you that he loves you, but on the flip side, he is not truly committing to you.

When he is able to get both your love and affection while also getting attention from girls on online dating sites and social media, he is able to feed into his sense of entitlement and importance.

Again, remember that he has told himself that he is doing you a favor by saying that he loves you.

The way that you react to your boyfriend saying that he loves you while having online dating profiles and saying that he is single on social media is by confronting him about this and letting him know that you are not going to be one of many.

You do not want to be one of many.

This would put you at a very vulnerable position mentally.

By being one of many, you will be vying for his attention and will become dependent on it over time.

Your boyfriend would know that he has full control over your emotions and may use that to his advantage.

He gets to have you and also have the attention that he craves from girls on online dating sites and social media.

If you allowed yourself to remain in this position, you may get into a highly toxic relationship.

Your boyfriend, knowing full well that you are emotionally dependent on him will try to make you out to be the inconsiderate one when you start asking for more of his time.

He will try to make it seem as though you are too selfish and needy for wanting him to spend more time and emotional capital on you.

This could totally affect your sense of self-worth to the point where you could develop anxiety.

You should never allow yourself to get sucked into this kind of a relationship. A true relationship involves both parties having an equal stake in the relationship.

If you were to keep him as your boyfriend while allowing him to have online dating profiles and say that he is single on social media, there would be a tremendous imbalance in your relationship.

A relationship cannot work when there is this kind of imbalance.

Hence, the best way for you to react is by confronting your boyfriend about this right now.

If he isn’t willing to take down his online dating profiles and say that he is taken on social media, it would be best for you to break up with him.

If you don’t, you will most likely experience everything that has just been described and then some.