Since the date was set up, you have had some time to think about how your past conversations with the guy have gone.
Your recollections have now put you at a place mentally where you are not sure if you still want to go.
When you initially met this guy on an online dating site, you may have been really interested.
Perhaps you noticed that the both of you have a lot in common or you may have noticed that you both share the same kind of humor.
You really liked this.
You noticed all of this from the guy’s dating profile.
Just by noticing all of this, you may have gotten really excited.
You may have even started imagining what it would be like to hang out with this guy.
Perhaps you looked at the pictures on his dating profile and noticed that he hikes.
You may love to hike as well.
You may have then allowed your imagination to take you into an imaginary experience as the both of you hiked together.
This may have then led to other visualizations that were based on the other pictures that you saw on his dating profile.
All of this may have gotten you that much more excited about this guy.
You may have already felt like you knew him, even though you were yet to speak to him at this stage.
When you got to speak to him, you were still on a high as far as your anticipation and expectations.
You may have proceeded to have a really good conversation with this guy that you met on an online dating site.
Perhaps you had a few more before he consequently asked you out on a date.
You agreed to it. However, now you aren’t sure if you still want to go.
It may be because you have come back down from the initial high that you had when you first saw his dating profile.
You had built him up so loftily in your mind that you were able to remain on that high for some time.
Upon talking to him, you may have still been at that high.
You may not have wanted to let go of it so quickly.
However, now that a date has been set, you may not be sure about whether you want to go because you are no looking fantasizing about what it would be like to hang out with this guy.
The few conversations that you have had with him may have been enough to give you a good idea about what it would be like to go out on a date with him or hang out with him. In essence, you may feel like you already know what an outing with this guy that you met on an online dating site would be like.
Although it would be great to go hiking with him, it would feel more like you were out hiking with a friend than with someone that you are actually romantically into.
That realization may have finally hit you once you were able to come back down from your high.
This may have been a few hours after your last conversation with him.
Being that you are no longer feeling giddy about this guy and you know that you are feeling more of a platonic vibe for him, you may not be sure if you still want to go on this date.
You should still go to the date.
Oftentimes people may be totally different in life than how they come off on a dating site.
Some people just do better when they are face to face with someone else than when they are communicating through the coldness of cyberspace.
Hence, in order to be absolutely certain about this guy, you should go to the date.
You really have nothing to lose but some of your time.
That is a decent price to pay in order to categorically confirm whether this guy is someone that you can only see as a friend or someone that may give you true romantic vibes.