If the both of you agreed to be in an exclusive relationship and it has been 4 months, it is not okay that he is on a dating website looking for friends.
Even if he told you that he is only looking for friends, you shouldn’t look at that as okay.
Even if that is truly his intention, you shouldn’t look at this as being okay.
People who use a dating website are generally looking for relationships or to hook up. Even if the person’s dating profile may read that they are looking for friends, this isn’t often their ultimate goal.
If your boyfriend of 4 months were to only send messages to people who state that they are looking for friends on their dating profile, he would be sending messages to people who are still looking to ultimately get into a relationship or hook up.
People who state that they are only looking for friends on an dating website typically write that because they want to build an online friendship with someone first.
They are hoping that in the process of building an online relationship with several people, they will ultimately find the best romantic partner for them.
Hence, in the back of their minds, they are still hoping to find someone to date at some point.
Even those who are already in a relationship in the real world and state that they are only looking for friends on a dating website can easily start having emotional affairs with people that they meet on a dating website.
This means that they can ultimately cheat on their real life partner if they get to a point where they feel more emotionally attached to the person that they are talking to on a dating website than to their real life partner.
That person that they become emotionally attached to could easily be your boyfriend.
This is why it is best not to allow yourself to think that it is okay that your boyfriend of 4 months is on a dating website looking for friends.
Again, regardless of whether your boyfriend’s intentions are truly about looking for friends and nothing more, he will still be communicating with people who would most likely ultimately either want to hook up with him or get into a relationship with him.
Even if your boyfriend of 4 months has a lot of self-control and is able to keep himself from getting physically involved with any of these so-called friends that he has met on a dating website, he would still be at risk of becoming emotionally attached to them.
An emotional attachment is often the first step before a physical affair begins.
This is the risk that you would be facing if you were to believe that it is okay for your boyfriend of 4 months to be on a dating website looking for friends and allow him to keep doing it.
He could start building an emotional bond with some of the so-called friends that he has made on a dating website.
He will go to them to even talk about problems that he may be having in his relationship with you, among other things.
This is how he is able to start building an emotional dependency with them over time that could make him start having less feelings for you.
As time goes on, this emotional dependency will get stronger until he becomes tempted to meet one of these so-called friends in real life.
This is when the physical cheating starts.
This is why it is best for you not to believe that it is okay for your boyfriend of 4 months to be on a dating website looking for friends.
You should let him know that you do not approve of this and this is not the kind of behavior that a person in an exclusive relationship should exhibit.
If he truly cares for you and the relationship, he will delete his online dating account on the dating website and stop all attempts to look for friends on dating websites.