Online Dating: Do Men Overestimate The Number Of Women Who Want To See Photos Of Them At The Gym Or Topless?

Online Dating: Do Men Overestimate The Number Of Women Who Want To See Photos Of Them At The Gym Or Topless?

Indeed, many men overestimate the number of women who want to see photos of them at the gym or topless.

It’s a notion that having photos of himself at a gym or topless makes him come off as more physically attractive.

Being that men are very visual in how they go about choosing a mate, there is an assumption that women are the same way.

So he spends way too much time posting photos of himself at the gym or topless, instead of posting the photos that women would find more appealing, that of him in the process of performing activities he loves.

Although the gym can be one of those activities, these men take it too far in posting too many gym photos.

To him, it comes across as though he is a guy who cares about fitness, but to her, it comes across as superficial.

She would much rather he demonstrate that he is into fitness by posting photos of him actively engrossed in diverse physical activities such as hiking, boating, climbing, etc.

But guys are too quick to go for the gym photos or topless photos.

So yes, he overestimates the number of women who want to see photos of him at the gym or topless.

He is unaware that women are drawn to a multifaceted approach to photos, as opposed to one that is so fixated on one thing.

For guys who are physically fit, this overestimation is easier for them.

It keeps him from having to take the time to take better photos of him immersed in a diverse range of activities outside of the gym.

It is so much easier to line up a number of gym photos that he had a gym buddy take, and post those to his dating profile.

Unfortunately, it wreaks of superficiality and laziness.

And this is also reflected in how he constructs his bio.

It isn’t much to look at.

There isn’t that much thought put into it.

He writes about how much he loves working out, how much he loves to party, and how lucky any girl is to be with him.

In other words, a nothing burger.

There is no substantial information to get excited about and relate to.

It’s like he is a shell of a human being with a nothing but air inside said shell.

The proliferation of dating profiles with multiple photos of a guy at the gym or topless is happening with greater and greater frequency on dating apps.

It’s infectious.

Being that guys don’t receive anywhere near as many matches on a dating app as women do, they get frustrated and desperate.

They look to what other guys who seem to be getting matches are doing.

Several of the guys who seem to get matches have a bunch of gym or topless photos on their dating profiles.

Seeing this, the guys who aren’t having any luck with getting matches copy those who seem to be having luck, by posting a bunch of photos of themselves at the gym or topless.

The thing is, the few guys who get the best results with these type of photos are the exquisitely good-looking guys.

Most guys aren’t exquisitely good-looking.

The women who care the most about looks on dating apps, are way more attracted to a guy’s face than his body.

When a bunch of average-looking guys start posting photos of themselves at a gym or topless, they are unaware that this won’t do much in changing their luck with getting matches.

They lose out with two different types of women.

The women who care the most about looks on dating apps, won’t swipe right unless a guy has a great-looking face, regardless of how many gym or topless photos there are on his dating profile.

The women who care the most about substance, wont swipe right unless a guy has a well-thought-out dating profile with an insightful bio and relatable photos, which renders a dating profile filled with gym or topless photos ineffective.