There isn’t a precise time frame.
Just avoid scheduling one too far into the future.
The person that you are talking to on the dating site has a certain expectation.
If she likes you, she is hoping that you ask her out.
If she is comfortable enough with you, she is open to when you want to have the date.
Some people hit it off so well when they meet on a dating site that they set a date for that day or the next.
Others set it within a few days to a week.
So much depends on both of your schedules.
But, if she likes you, she will make the time and if she can’t, she will tell you when her schedule is free.
Try not to get so hooked on how many days in advance you should schedule the date.
If there is an event coming up that you really want to take her to and you are worried that it is too soon to ask her, don’t be.
Just ask her.
If she likes you and has enjoyed her conversations with you thus far, even if it has only been a few days, she could surprise you by agreeing to it.
It just comes down to the vibe she is getting from you, whether her schedule is free that day and how traditional she is.
If she is a stickler for tradition without exceptions when it comes to dating, she could turn you down but let you know that she would like to take some more time to get to know you first.
You still win.
She still wants to get to know you.
You just have to be a little more patient with her and take some time to get to know each other more.
Other women would jump at the opportunity to go to the event.
They joined the dating site to find someone.
Though you asked them to this event after only a few email exchanges, they know that they are already feeling good about you and are willing to take a chance on meeting you for the event.
Besides, if the event is something that doesn’t come around all that often, it has a sense of urgency.
This makes it all the more likely that they look at your request as you trying to take advantage of the event before it is gone.
This could be some kind of festival, concert, exhibition, etc.
Event or no event, if you feel the need to ask her out, do.
Try not to get too caught up on how many days in advance you need.
You would be surprised at how quickly some women are willing to meet a guy that they only just became acquainted with on a dating site, for coffee, drinks or dinner.
It just depends on the comfort level of the girl and how traditional she is.
Some guys get so worried about asking a girl out to a date too soon that they wait it out for too long.
Most girls on dating sites want to be asked out.
That is an essential part of why they are on the dating site in the first place.
They either want to meet a lifelong partner or a casual partner.
Both require that they get asked out first.
If there is an event coming up soon that isn’t something available all year round but you are worried that it is too soon to ask her to, don’t be.
Just ask her.
Let her decide whether she is comfortable enough with you to go.
If you are just looking to meet her on a date to something regular like coffee or a bar, ask her to that too.
You have already had a number of good message exchanges with her.
Let her decide if she is comfortable enough to meet you at this point.
If she is, she will agree to your offer.
If she isn’t, she will just let you know that she would like to take some more time to get to know you first.