The last thing you should want is to come off as needy and as though you are waiting for her every word.

Yes, it can be frustrating when you don’t get a reply for a day or two, but be mindful of first impressions.

You have only recently met her online and you don’t want the first impression that you give her to be of a guy who is needy and wanting of attention.

Some girls test the value of a guy by observing how he communicates with them.

If he is too quick to respond to her messages, she gets the feeling that he is just sitting around waiting for her to send a message.

If you are now to compound this by asking this girl about why she takes so long to reply back, you can easily turn her off.

You both met online and she barely knows you.

As long as she is responding to your messages in detail within a day or two, you are at a good place.

There are many guys on the dating site who are looking to get her attention.

Yes, talking to these guys is easily what she is doing when you notice that she is online.

This, among other things.

She has friends and family that she is chatting with too.

She is up to a bunch of things.

Heck, she could even be playing video games.

You don’t really know what she is up to when she is online.

Asking her politely about why she takes so long to reply back and giving her the impression that you have noticed her constantly online easily makes her feel like you don’t have a life.

What sort of man would sit around watching her activity online?

A desperate man.

A man with no life.

This is not the man she wants.

There is no polite way to ask her about why she takes so long to reply back to your messages.

Anything you say, regardless of how polite, comes off as needy and desperate.

This sends her running the other way from you.

Running to a bunch of other guys on the dating site who are giving her attention.

In case you don’t know, women receive a lot more messages from men on dating sites than the other way around.

She won’t have a problem forgetting you.

Is this what you want?

Of course not.

It is too early to be taking this so personally.

She is yet to establish a strong enough bond with you online to start giving you priority whenever she is online.

Be patient.

Focus on having fun and enjoyable conversations with her.

Flirt, tease and keep asking her questions about herself.

Do this consistently and she reaches a point where she is having so much fun with you online that she prioritizes replying to your messages first, above all others.

In the meantime, start conversations with other women of interest on the dating site.

The more people you are involved in conversations with, the less focused you are on this one woman.

This keeps you from constantly watching what she is doing online and driving yourself crazy about why she hasn’t replied back to you.

Play this game right over time and you become her favorite person to talk to online.