Even though you met him while online dating, you have a long way to go before discovering whether he is your soulmate or not.
You should really keep your emotions in check.
Oftentimes, people get so caught up in wanting to find their soulmate.
They fall in love with the idea that there is that one special person waiting for them.
They allow themselves to become really tied to this belief to the point where they may already know what this person looks like and how they behave.
You may have been like this before you even started online dating.
You may have already known that you wanted to find your soulmate.
You may have thought about what that soulmate would look like.
You already could see him in your mind.
You knew his habits.
You knew his principles.
You knew what he did for a living.
You knew his temperament.
You knew his hobbies.
You knew how much he would love and cherish you.
You could have already created the perfect soulmate in your mind before you decided to start online dating.
As a result, by the time that you started, you already knew what kind of man you wanted.
This soulmate was already stuck on your mind.
You innately believed that if you were to run into him while online dating, you would know that it was him.
Your intuition would just tell you.
You may have met this guy now.
You saw his online dating profile and felt that instant sense of connection.
You saw his pictures and was shocked at how closely he resembled the guy that you had already created in your mind.
You were almost certain that it had to be him.
The both of you began to engage in conversation and it has been so amazing.
He seems to really get you.
He seems to understand what matters most to you.
He is very kind towards you.
He is gentle and warm.
He always seems to be able to get a read on how you are feeling about something.
It just feels like he has known you for your entire life.
At the end of every conversation that you have with him, you become more and more certain that this is the soulmate that you have been waiting for your entire life.
You should make sure that you don’t allow yourself to get carried away with this guy.
A soulmate is not just someone who gives you that tingly warm feeling.
A soulmate is not just someone who checks all of the boxes in terms of the perfect mate that you desire.
A soulmate is not just someone who is able to complete your thought process and say something that you were thinking before you were able to say it.
There is so much more to someone being a soulmate than what you are currently feeling and experiencing.
A soulmate is a person that stands the test of time and is always there for you no matter what.
A soulmate is someone who puts your happiness above theirs and shows it over and over again, even after the both of you argue.
A soulmate is someone that gives you the harsh truth when necessary because they know that this will help to make you a better person and help you get the most out of life.
In essence, they will not only always tell you what you want to hear.
These are just some of the behaviors that you should expect from a soulmate.
All of them take time to witness and experience.
This guy that you have just met while online dating has not been given this kind of time to truly prove to you that he is your soulmate.
Hence, you shouldn’t just jump to conclusions with the belief that he is.
His behavior has to be consistent and stand the test of time.
When you are celebrating your 50th wedding anniversary with him and he is still staring into your eyes just as in love with you as he was 50 years earlier, you know that he is your soulmate.
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