If you have been online dating and have been finding it difficult to get hit on, it may have little to do with being overweight or ugly.

The reason why you are not getting hit on may be because of your negative thought process and attitude.

If you believe that you are overweight or ugly, you may feel really down about yourself.

You were most likely already unhappy about yourself long before you decided to start online dating.

Think about how you typically think about yourself in real life.

Do you have a positive disposition about yourself?

Do you often think of yourself as a catch?

Do you ever think about how lucky anyone would be to have you as a significant other?

You should really take a moment to think about this.

How often in the real world have you ever looked at yourself in a positive light in terms of your attractiveness?

There is a good chance that you never do.

This means that you were probably already really unhappy about yourself and your love life before you ever decided to start online dating.

This kind of negativity is as much a turn off to people in the real world as it is to people who are online dating.

When you come into online dating with this kind of mindset, people will totally sense your energy.

They will know that you aren’t happy about yourself.

They will know that you lack confidence.

People don’t want to interact with someone that they believe will bring them down emotionally.

This may be why you do not get hit on by people on online dating sites.

They may actually be turned off by your negative energy.

You may believe that you have not been getting hit on while using online dating sites because you are overweight or ugly, but it may have very little to do with that.

Take a look at your online dating profile.

Read it to yourself and ask yourself whether the person who wrote that online dating profile sounds like someone who is confident and believes that they are a catch.

There is a good chance that if you are being honest with yourself, you will not believe that the person who wrote that online dating profile is someone who is confident and believes that they are a good catch.

Focus on showing more of your true personality on your online dating profile.

Forget about the fact that you are overweight or that you believe that you are ugly.

Simply focus on writing an online dating profile that showcases who you are as a person.

You are much more than what you appear to be on the outside.

Who is that person? Write about them.

Be personable in your online dating profile.

Sound as though you are talking to someone else in the same room as you.

Be silly if you want. Crack jokes if you want. Get excited if you want.

Just be you.

Let it out.

Your online dating profile is what people use to determine whether you would be someone that they would like to get to know better.

Show them who that person is so that they can get a better idea of who you are.

If you are so focused on the fact that you are overweight or the belief that you are ugly on online dating sites, you will only be negative and drab in what you write and how you portray yourself.

Hence, take your focus away from that.

Let your personality shine through on your online dating profile.

This will attract a lot more people to your online dating profile and some of them will indeed hit on you.